analsexonly wrote:Hello and welcome! Tell us more about yourself and your relationship with anal only.
Hello!
I'm from central Europe and I'm in my late 20s.
I think I have always been predisposed to anal. I remember when I first started looking at porn at around 12 or 13, I usually read those Japanese gay porn comics (yaoi), and whenever I read straight hentai comics, I always got bored when they featured vaginal penetration and hoped for anal scenes.
While anal only hentai used to be pretty rare back then, now I have found a couple of great AO artists I'm very thankful for. I watch live action porn as well (gay porn or anal only straight porn), but sometimes drawn ones just work better for me.
Moving on. The first time I tried to masturbate at around 14 by sticking something up my butt. I think it was a slim deo spray bottle. I read anal sex guides on the internet, so I remembered to use lube. However, I didn't warm up with fingers at all and just tried to force the lubed spray bottle in.
It did eventually go in, but it was extremely painful and I bled. However, that still didn't put me off anal at all, especially because I realized that I made a mistake by not slowly stretching first. After that, I only tried on and off again, and one time I used a finger, I touched poop.
I read on the internet about douching, but I was too embarrassed to buy a douche, and didn't want my mom to find it. Then I remembered we have a dental jet washer. Luckily, there were different caps for the washer and there was one we never used, so I ended up using that jet washer for my nefarious purposes. It worked surprisingly well (and don't worry, I always kept that cap in my make-up bag so no one would accidentally put it in their mouth.)
A few bad experiences with vaginal later, after I got a boyfriend, he one day offered to go down on my butt since I vehemently refused cunnilingus (just the thought of it being done on me made me gag, and still does.)
I agreed, and to this day, it's one of the most amazing feelings I have ever felt. He was definitely an ass man, so he was very enthusiastic about it and dove right in. I always kept my butthole hair free and clean, so that really helped me relax and enjoy it.
This became our foreplay for vaginal sex, which I still hated, and it wasn't for months when we decided to try anal. We discussed it before but I only wanted to do it at my place when my mom is away so I could use the jet washer to clean myself.
Now here should be the part where we do it and it's the best thing ever, but unfortunately it didn't work out. He rimmed me for a long time, then lubed me up and fingered me, but he just couldn't get his dick in. I think I was too tense after all. Unfortunately, we didn't get another opportunity, and broke up for unrelated reasons.
I didn't have another relationship since then, but I started masturbating regularly and after I usually used a vibrator on my clit and a finger in my ass, one day I decided to buy a small textured dildo.
So one day I decided to try it out, cleaned myself, very slowly opened myself with fingers, put the vibrator on my clit, pushed the dildo in, and had one of the most intensive orgasms in my life. I even involuntarily gasped a little, which surprised me because I have never been vocal.
I haven't put anything but tampons up my vagina since I broke up with my boyfriend, and I don't plan to.
So here I am.
I really hope to find an anal only friends with benefits arrangement one day. I have considered casual hookups, but I don't want to use condoms, so that would be way too risky. Besides, I don't think many people would be willing to give analingus to a stranger, and that is a prerequisite for me. Someone who would like to meet up every now and then just to eat my ass for a few hours would be the dream.
The thing is, while for a lot of people being on the receiving end of anal feels submissive, for me I see it as an act of dominance. I like think of how my butt devours the cock and sucks it in, how to make a guy whimper and gasp as I clench and milk him dry, or overstimulate him by popping just the head in and out again.
Obviously, there's nothing wrong with thinking it feels submissive. It's all a matter of approach, really. Many people find giving blowjobs to be a submissive act, but on the other hand, putting a very delicate part of your body into a cavity full of teeth and considering how the jaws are strong enough to bite a penis clean off, it could just as well feel like the opposite for the participants.
Oops, that was a lot of text. I hope somebody might find it useful or interesting at least.
On a completely different note, I just wanted to tell you that you are doing a great job at modding, analsexonly.
As I mentioned, I have lurked around for a bit, and from what I saw you always try to be neutral and understanding, and remind people that, while AO is great, it just isn't for everyone, and that's okay. I was a bit wary at first because communities like this can quickly get cult-y or creepy, but I think the atmosphere is great so far. Keep it up!
I found this forum through your Tumblr blog and I'm really glad I clicked.
lolatshi wrote:Hi, IM Marcy , im a transsexual who seems to have turned my ass in to a vagina like pleasure hole, why I luv deep anal penetration I don't know, but the more I fuck my self the more I feel like a woman, what is it about bring penetrated and stretched wide open that is so satisfying and fulfilling? does anyone else have copious clear mucas leakage for hours after a good reaming?
Hey, Marcy! I think you might have clicked the wrong button because it looks like you wanted to make an introduction post.
posting.php?mode=post&f=6 is where to post so you can have an introduction thread just for you.
I think I had mucous leakage one time when I didn't have an enema before. I don't think it's harmful, but from what I know, you should let your butt rest for a bit (a few hours or a day) so the mucous membranes can reform.
Happy (and safe) stretching!
