Definitely curious
Definitely curious
Hello. I stumbled onto this site via a kink forum. Didn't know this was a thing, but it's starting to make sense for me. Vaginal is painful (three children, I think they broke my vagina) and I get more stimulation from anal with clit play. Not sure I've embraced the "only" aspect yet, but that's part of why I'm here. Time will tell.
Re: Definitely curious
Welcome to the community! 
I've found that lots of people still use clit play but otherwise remain anal only, but some don't. Are you able to orgasm from anal stimulation or do you still have clitoral orgasms?
I've found that lots of people still use clit play but otherwise remain anal only, but some don't. Are you able to orgasm from anal stimulation or do you still have clitoral orgasms?
Re: Definitely curious
Well, that's a whole other issue. I've never achieved orgasm. Ever. So I'm trying different things to see if something new might work.
Re: Definitely curious
I'm sorry to hear that 
It took a long time for me to have anal orgasms, but with a lot of persistence and experimenting it did happen. I found that having a full bladder helped me. I'm not really sure why but I think it puts more pressure on the vaginal canal if you're filling your ass and have a full bladder. It takes about 40-ish minutes to orgasm that way with vigorous, deep thrusts with a dildo. Certain positions are better than others too, like lying on my side or with my legs up and knees together. Basically any position where my thighs are together because it puts even more indirect pressure on my vagina.
It also helps to be kinda mentally vacant in a way. It's so much easier to orgasm when you are focused on what you want and put all other worries and mental preoccupations aside.
That's just my experience. Everyone has a different path though, but once you find the right way to pleasure your body and stay mentally zen, the bliss will come. I wish you all the luck in the world!
It took a long time for me to have anal orgasms, but with a lot of persistence and experimenting it did happen. I found that having a full bladder helped me. I'm not really sure why but I think it puts more pressure on the vaginal canal if you're filling your ass and have a full bladder. It takes about 40-ish minutes to orgasm that way with vigorous, deep thrusts with a dildo. Certain positions are better than others too, like lying on my side or with my legs up and knees together. Basically any position where my thighs are together because it puts even more indirect pressure on my vagina.
It also helps to be kinda mentally vacant in a way. It's so much easier to orgasm when you are focused on what you want and put all other worries and mental preoccupations aside.
That's just my experience. Everyone has a different path though, but once you find the right way to pleasure your body and stay mentally zen, the bliss will come. I wish you all the luck in the world!
Re: Definitely curious
Hi GlassPlug, welcome to this forum! 
-Haunter
(PS I recommend you check out all my posts and reply if you wish ahah)
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Re: Definitely curious
Hello and welcome! I've noticed a lot of women in a similar situation—vaginal sex no longer being enjoyable or even being downright painful after having children, and a realization that going anal only instead can bring back the fun and pleasure of sex without pain.
