Me saying hi
Me saying hi
So where to start I am fem 33 in the uk and me an husband are 80% anal. I have had anal since I was in uni when I had an older bf an while I have loved it not been able to discuss it with friends as most thinks it's taboo. Of only they tried it they would realise it's songbook when right an v rarely bad with a caring partner. Fave position is face down or bent over bed.
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So good not song book lol
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Hi Kelly, welcome to the forum.
I know not everyone is comfortable talking about it with friends for fear of negative judgement, but I do think that more people talking about it positively and expressing their love and preference for it can go a long way to combat many people's taboo notions and fear of it. Most people who talk about it negatively have probably not even done it themselves, or if they have only had one or two bad experiences without knowing what they were doing to make it great. So you never know, if someone says something negative or mocking about anal sex, speaking up and countering it with your own opposite experience might just spark their interest.
I know not everyone is comfortable talking about it with friends for fear of negative judgement, but I do think that more people talking about it positively and expressing their love and preference for it can go a long way to combat many people's taboo notions and fear of it. Most people who talk about it negatively have probably not even done it themselves, or if they have only had one or two bad experiences without knowing what they were doing to make it great. So you never know, if someone says something negative or mocking about anal sex, speaking up and countering it with your own opposite experience might just spark their interest.
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I see what you mean I think most friends have said www oww or never or all three I suspect some lie as I have when asked about it. Shame really as i do enjoy it greatly
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In my experience, a lot of women just instinctively say negative things about anal or lie about liking it because they're all worried about what the others will think when in reality most either haven't done it or actually do like it if they have had more than just a few bad experiences.
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Welcome! Any chance of increasing beyond that 80% ?
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I suspect my husband would just be happy using my arse an mouth though sometimes I like vanilla sex too
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Kelly_ukf wrote:I suspect my husband would just be happy using my arse an mouth though sometimes I like vanilla sex too
Ah, ok. Maybe you could shoot for 85% though!

You should get your husband to sign up on this forum. Sounds like he would fit right in.
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Perhaps give it the one month AO challenge? Do u use vaginal or clitoral stimulation as well, or just anal?