Hello from beautiful Northern Michigan!

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NorthernMichGent
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Hello from beautiful Northern Michigan!

Post by NorthernMichGent » Thu Dec 29, 2016 9:02 am

Hello all,

I randomly stumbled across this sit this morning and immediately signed up. When I was younger (in college) I had a NSA relationship with an older woman I met in the area and she got me hooked on an anal only relationship and we both loved it so much. As most NSA relationships go, ours eventually faded away but my love for anal never did. I've had a few relationships since then where I was able to talk my girl into trying it but none of them ever really enjoyed it as much as me regardless of my patience, taking things very slow in the beginning, lots of lube, etc. mainly they said "it's not the pain, it's the taboo" which in my head I'' thinking "that's half the fun about it!". Fast forward to the past few years and I actually had the greatest thing ever going. I had a job where I traveled a lot but was also home for about two weeks a month and I lived in a college town in SW Michigan where my 5th floor condo had an elevator that went directly down to this really classy restaurant on the first floor where a bunch of college girls worked. It was a live jazz type club / restaurant so there was always a fantastic atmosphere and people drinking, etc. over the course of about two years I went in there 4-5 times a week for dinner and some cocktails and began to befriend the wait staff and bar staff to the point where a lot of them would come up to my condo for after partys on the weekend. We all got pretty drunk and I became the guy that would openly talk about sex and anal. All the girls were all very young and inexperienced but with the way porn showcases anal these days they were all interested but the still existing taboo factor had many of them coming to me in private asking questions about it and I always had the right answers. I knew if I didn't push it on them that one would eventually ask if I could show her what it's like which did happen eventually with a lot of patience and trust building. Anyone that's ever worked at a restaurant knows secrets don't last long and the rumor went around that I was showing the ropes to this particular girl and then the flood gates opened and I had girls asking me to show them how at least once, and even twice a week. One girl even had some of her dorm friends coming in for their lessons. It was absolutely fantastic being known as the "Anal Therapist" to all these young girls. I hope I did a good job with them all and maybe one or two of the girls went on to start an AO relationship after. It's been about a year now as I had to move away from that town for a new job but something I'd like to bring up as part of my experience "breaking in" over 25 virgin asses is that anal sex is unnatural and takes a lot of patience. Of those 20+ girls, NONE of them were "good" at it in the beginning so all newcomers here I encourage you to take it slow in the beginning and don't have extremely high expectations at first. As time moves on you will gain experience and learn things you like, what your limits are, etc. everyone is built different so take it slow at first! Like I said, all of those girls were pretty "bad" in the beginning but a few of them really caught on quick and became better at it than any girl I've ever seen on a porno. Well, this is getting quite long, and I'm getting horny thinking about all those girls (especially the Asian girl from Vietnam -- wow!) and might have to take care of something real quick!

Cheers, and thanks for having me!

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Re: Hello from beautiful Northern Michigan!

Post by singleinDC » Thu Dec 29, 2016 9:08 am

Welcome. I'm curious, with the older woman you were with in college -- how did the anal only dynamic come about?

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Re: Hello from beautiful Northern Michigan!

Post by NorthernMichGent » Thu Dec 29, 2016 9:14 am

I was basically her "boy toy" so she made all the rules and one of the first rules she told me was that her pussy was off limits. I was a very young man / boy at that time (21) and she was in her 40s but still had a great figure and very high sex drive so I obliged.

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Re: Hello from beautiful Northern Michigan!

Post by singleinDC » Thu Dec 29, 2016 9:33 am

Ah, I see. What was get reasoning for withholding her pussy?

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Re: Hello from beautiful Northern Michigan!

Post by Canassman » Thu Dec 29, 2016 10:00 am

Interesting & unique history! Welcome aboard.

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Re: Hello from beautiful Northern Michigan!

Post by Haunter » Thu Dec 29, 2016 10:49 am

Hello! Nice tale indeed :D Well, how did you meet the first (older) female partner and how did you come to that type of relationship?
I'm also curious about the curiosity of your "students" :-) Did they watch you perform anal on them, maybe even not in a 1-1 standing? (I personally think I would be quite ashamed of sharing my intimacy with people not supposed to be having sex with me, or as well taking part in others'intimacy. To be precise, the latter actively would annoy me very much if I were forced to assist).
Think, it's free ;-)

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Re: Hello from beautiful Northern Michigan!

Post by NorthernMichGent » Thu Dec 29, 2016 11:06 am

singleinDC wrote:Ah, I see. What was get reasoning for withholding her pussy?

I have a feeling she was married. She would never admit it but with the schedule that she could "play" was very routine - week nights only and no weekends. I was not allowed to call / text her ever.

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Re: Hello from beautiful Northern Michigan!

Post by NorthernMichGent » Thu Dec 29, 2016 11:09 am

Haunter wrote:Hello! Nice tale indeed :D Well, how did you meet the first (older) female partner and how did you come to that type of relationship?
I'm also curious about the curiosity of your "students" :-) Did they watch you perform anal on them, maybe even not in a 1-1 standing? (I personally think I would be quite ashamed of sharing my intimacy with people not supposed to be having sex with me, or as well taking part in others'intimacy. To be precise, the latter actively would annoy me very much if I were forced to assist).

I met the older woman in an AOL chat room. This was back in 2000-2001.

The students of mine were always 1 on 1 with nobody else at my place except whoever was getting her lesson. I always tried to be respectful of their privacy even though I know they were all talking about it together in private.

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Re: Hello from beautiful Northern Michigan!

Post by singleinDC » Thu Dec 29, 2016 11:10 am

NorthernMichGent wrote:
singleinDC wrote:Ah, I see. What was get reasoning for withholding her pussy?

I have a feeling she was married. She would never admit it but with the schedule that she could "play" was very routine - week nights only and no weekends. I was not allowed to call / text her ever.

Ah, I see. Sounds like anal only happened accidentally... you're a lucky guy!!

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Re: Hello from beautiful Northern Michigan!

Post by BackdoorDeliveryman3 » Sat Dec 31, 2016 2:17 pm

Hello NorthernMichGent, it sounds like you've had a good life! And I'm living in Michigan too! (Detroit area)... Welcome to the club! :D

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