Anal Only Lifestyle Forum

Hiya,

I don't know why it's taken me so long to find this site! Anyway I'm here now.

I'm a willing sub 49 years young. I got into the BDSM scene following the breakdown of my marriage 19 years ago. I've been with my current dom a little over 10 years and we still have a strong relationship. His kink is vaginal stretching and fisting which he introduced me to early on. I was happy to oblige and it became an integral part of our sex life. Over time my vagina became rather loose for satisfying intercourse and I've been pretty much anal only for around 7 years now.

I look forward to meeting like minded women on here to share hints and tips

Love,
Cas.

Hi Cas, welcome to the forum. It's pretty amazing to see the different ways people end up becoming anal only! Is your dom happy with AO intercourse, given he likes to stretch out your vagina?

Hiya,

My vagina is out of bounds for intercourse and I'm not permitted to orgasm through vaginal stimulation, but my dom takes pleasure from fisting me and using large dildos while enjoying anal sex with me. I guess my vagina is not off limits for play, but I struggle to remember the last time he entered it with his penis. Do I still qualify as AO?

Cas

There are varying degrees of AO, but the essential part is no penis in vagina.

Hiya,

Thanks for clearing that up. Sounds like I qualify after all

Can I ask what the etiquette is regarding language on here? Words like "vagina" and "penis" are rather clinical and not what I'd normally use. I just didn't want to commit a faux pas before I got started!

Cas

I'm just another member here, but... butt, ass, bum, arse, rear, back door... etc. are fine too Whatever you prefer.

Nice pic Cassandra.

Monica wrote:Nice pic Cassandra.

Thanks Monica

Hi Cassandra, welcome! Whatever language you prefer to use is fine. Given the subject matter of the forum, it's not unexpected that the conversational tone may become sexually explicit. The only rule with regards to that is that pornographic imagery or video should be linked to rather than embedded in posts.

Everyone has their own interpretation of what anal only means for them and how it best works. The core component is no vaginal intercourse. Everything else builds on top of that—some going as strict as zero vaginal or clitoral penetration or external stimulation. It's a broad spectrum.