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Hello, I'm Simba, a bisexual guy living in France. I'm can either be a top or bottom with guys, and I'm anal only with women.

I started my sexuality with men, but had my first relationship with a female when I was 23. I was her "best gay friend", and like me, she was a lot into power exchange, so it brought us together until it became obvious we wanted to fuck each other. I did vaginal sex with her in the beginning out of curiosity, but very quickly got back to anal out of preference and because it clearly turned her on, and eventually we went anal only with power exchange and clitoral denial.

From that time on I consider myself bisexual, and I have known relationships with men, women, and both mtf and ftm transexuals, always with power exchange one way or the other (I'm mostly dominant with women), and with no vaginal or clitoral stimulation out of some very rare times with some ftm transexuals.

I'm extremely open to tons of sexual practises (including various threesome combinations) and have done quite a few, but I'm into relationships rather than into experiences, meaning I'm not collecting partners nor looking for something specific now, I prefer to adapt to people I learn to know and like, and help them develop and live their fantasies. I enjoy sexual friendship.

I learned about this forum thanks to the remarkable Anal Only Lifestyle/Anal Only blogs on tumblr, which turn me on A LOT and with which I'm on the same wavelength (I think anal sex should become the default worldwide).

I have a blog on tumblr, http://jeuxdepouvoir.tumblr.com/, which is a gay power exchange blog with occasional straight anal posts (I don't do too much because alas, mixing gay and straight porn confuses readers).

I recently started a straight blog about what I enjoy with women: https://plaisirdesoffrir.tumblr.com/

I hope this forum doesn't mind a bisexual guy.

Sorry if I'm short tonight but at least I'll utter "welcome here Simba"

I certainly welcome a bisexual person. I'm 85-95% straight, with the other 5-15% being outposts of bisexual curiosity.

You mention "power exchange." Though I could hazard a guess as to what I think it ought to mean, it sounds like a recognized thing that people do, which has a common description amongst those who do it. Would you mind explaining what it is?

Hi F655A!

Power exchange is basically dominant/submissive dynamics. I'm mostly submissive with men and mostly dominant with women. But I like to adapt to people, couples in particular (MM or MF) so I can fit in their fantasy.

Oh. I would have guessed wrong. Funny! I thought it was some metaphysical energetic exercise.

But it IS some metaphysical energetic exercise!

Interesting. In what way?

Perhaps I am confused because the Dom/sub description always gives me the idea that one party is supposed to feel empowered, while the other gets a thrill from feeling disempowered.

F655A wrote:Perhaps I am confused because the Dom/sub description always gives me the idea that one party is supposed to feel empowered, while the other gets a thrill from feeling disempowered.

That's the exchange: someone gives something to someone else, and everybody gets something from the unbalance.

Done right, it can be a physical and psychological liberation. Power exchange (in my case, I've been both a submissive and a dominant with men and women) made me a much better lover, including for "standard" sex (still anal, not talking about vaginal), and an altogether better person. You're purged of all your frustrations and fantasies.

Hi Simba!

I'm also Bi. I love anal pleasure both in the giving and receiving. Although, it's been many years since I was with another man. Currently, I'm A/O with my beautiful wife.

Hi Simba!

I'm also Bi. I love anal pleasure both in the giving and receiving. Although, it's been many years since I was with another man. Currently, I'm A/O with my beautiful wife.

Look forward to hearing more about your adventures