19year old curious :)

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19year old curious :)

Post by skinnybitch » Sun Oct 08, 2017 5:15 pm

Hey everyone! I found this forum while satisfying myself with my fantasies. I'm a 19 year old female, and, while I've never had anal sex, I've always been fascinated by it. I've never had the balls to actually buy a butt plug, but I love improvising by using hairbrushes or basically anything I can get to fit inside my ass. My boyfriend isn't into anal sex, so we've never tried it although I've hinted about wanting to several times.

I'd love to have more inspiration for pleasuring myself anally even if my boyfriend doesn't agree to doing anal with me! I'm pretty new to this whole thing, and I don't wanna base anything off of porn, so any tips or tricks would be greatly appreciated! ^_^

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Re: 19year old curious :)

Post by dvm1987 » Sun Oct 08, 2017 10:54 pm

hello and welcome...if your boyfriend dont want to fuck your ass, i will sure do !

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Re: 19year old curious :)

Post by Haunter » Sun Oct 08, 2017 11:36 pm

Welcome here skinnybitch :)
Think, it's free ;-)

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Re: 19year old curious :)

Post by analsexonly » Mon Oct 09, 2017 5:18 am

Hello! Welcome to the forum.

My tips and tricks for anal play would be to start masturbating anal only. If your boyfriend doesn't want anal, and you're okay with that for now, keep on keeping on with him, but on your own time, masturbate your ass only. Use your clit if you need it to orgasm from anal, otherwise focus just on anal pleasure and chase down its different aspects and learn what shapes, depths, and angles give you the most pleasure when fucking your ass.

I'd really suggest getting to the point where you have a few butt plugs and dildos for your ass, as they really are better than random objects (as fun as those might be sometimes) and are safer and designed for your ass.

As far as more specific advice and tips, feel free to ask any questions you have and we'll endeavor to answer them as best we can!

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Re: 19year old curious :)

Post by skinnybitch » Tue Oct 10, 2017 8:33 pm

Thank you for the responses everyone! :D I do have one question about enemas or "cleaning out" my ass. Is that completely necessary for any kind of extended anal play or is it necessary at all? There would really be no way for me to do it in private since I live in a college dorm, so I'm worried that not being able to will inhibit me in my anal ventures.

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Re: 19year old curious :)

Post by AnnoMundi » Wed Oct 11, 2017 3:53 am

The universe has a perverse sense of humor in that it seems to love to hook up people who love anal with people who don't.

As for the OP's questions, first, be welcome here. Secondly, thanks to the internet anyone can buy anything online without have to feel ashamed. Things like dildos always get delivered in inconspicuous brown boxes. And if your dorm mates open your packages I'd say you have bigger problems to deal with. Thirdly, cleaning out your ass is in my experience only really necessary if you go for deep anal stuff. I wouldn't shove anything up there knowing I have a strong urge to shit at the same time, as that is usually a sign that I have to take a dump, so there will be shit in my rectum. Otherwise the rectum is remarkably clean of itself. When I use a reasonable dildo or plug 99% of the times it comes out clean again. Even with deep anal I seem to be doing very well in that regard.

If you're that worried that it will come out dirty, and don't relish taking a dirty dildo or plug to a common kitchen or bathroom, have a small buck or washing bowl at the ready, clean it in there in the privacy of your room, then dispose of the water afterwards. Oh, don't forget to use plenty of lube. With small stuff you can get by using spit, but with bigger stuff and real toys its best to use lube. And never stick something big straight in right away. That only works in porn. First time I did that it with a real dildo it f***ing hurt. Nearly killed off my anal fetish. Porn never shows the preparations beforehand. Work your way gradually up to bigger things. Your ass will like it and so do you.

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Re: 19year old curious :)

Post by analsexonly » Wed Oct 11, 2017 12:37 pm

If you have a fairly healthy, balanced diet with a good amount of fiber intake, you're probably going to be fairly clean most of the time except right before you need to go to the bathroom. The rectum stays empty generally for most people. The most you'd need to do for most anal play and sex is a light flushing out with a small enema bulb/douche if you want to be absolutely sure you're clean, but that's often not necessary either.

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Re: 19year old curious :)

Post by Sideguy4U » Sat Jun 20, 2020 3:43 pm

I think you can find someone at your age to engage. if not DM me.

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Re: 19year old curious :)

Post by julietagc » Sat Jun 20, 2020 5:01 pm

skinnybitch wrote:
Tue Oct 10, 2017 8:33 pm
Thank you for the responses everyone! :D I do have one question about enemas or "cleaning out" my ass. Is that completely necessary for any kind of extended anal play or is it necessary at all? There would really be no way for me to do it in private since I live in a college dorm, so I'm worried that not being able to will inhibit me in my anal ventures.

First of all, welcome, I am always happy to see more girls here, I hope this place helps you.

According to "cleaning out", the enemas will clean you but it is not recommended, enemas are frequently bad for your health, they affect the bacterial flora of your intestines and lower your defenses, making you sick from things that you normally don't.

What I recommend for you to be clean are two things.
1- Being hydrated, drinking water, adding fiber foods to your diet, it is not very complicated, practically any fruit has fibers.
2- Know yourself, know your intestinal traffic, go to the bathroom regularly even if you don't feel like going and trying,
before anal sex make sure that you have gone to the bathroom a few hours before and have not eaten much after

Basically having that care and good hygiene you would have no problem. Try yourself, it is better that if something unpleasant happens it is alone and not with a guy because it can be very uncomfortable for you, once you learn why they are.

Good luck, any questions you ask us.
"Pussy ignored, ass gaped" ;)

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Re: 19year old curious :)

Post by AnalAddict811 » Sat Oct 24, 2020 4:53 am

I am very new to this as well. I’ve only recently started penetrating anally...however the girl I am doing it with (just a friend) wants to do it exclusively. We took our time and did it correctly...used toys of various sizes first to prepare and went slow. It’s getting easier for her now and I’m finding I like it more too. She said it’s “a more intense experience.” I would only reccomend to you that you go slow at first and don’t go too big too fast.

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