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Re: Wales UK 44 female

Post by UKAnalonlylady » Tue Jan 09, 2018 2:47 pm

Good question but it would be hard to articulate with out giving a detailed history of my sex life which would take a month of Sundays on this tiny querty. I've never took the plunge and gone anal only though it's been an intention for quite sometime I once had a number of weeks at one where me and an ex partner just stuck to anal and oral with his cock but with stimulation of my vagina too but he could not keep away from vaginal sex for long. I began to crave anal only in this relationship and did raise it and he would agree to many different anal only ideas but when I really pressed it as a more permanent aspect of our sex lives I was met with a brush off of the idea I'm still unsure why. He laughed and said "you're mad you are". Strange thing to say after a weekend marathon of anal that he was quite apparently enjoying! but that was his answer ... I've never really stopped thinking about it since then and the need for this lifestyle has totally taken over all sexual thought I have. It's a very personal and intimate act I just live bonding with a partner through anal. I had a previous partner that was quite insistent on anal when I was less keen. He was extremely attentive would spend a lot of time just touching massaging kissing and fingering my bottom and talking to me. I was fairly young I did struggle with it when he penetrated with his cock and never truly relaxed into it like I did as I got older but I enjoyed the intimacy of that, and I think that carried with me, and as I began to like anal more I craved a more personal intimate anal experience and this is why I am so keen on meeting someone who wants this too. Rather than someone who will gravitate to my vagina . I love everything about anal how personal it is, sharing that and feeling my sometimes stubborn arse flowering open and I love watching partners eyes light up as he is getting into teasing his cock and my gaping arse after he has relaxed it open The orgasms from anal are In a different league altogether


In a nut shell I am into anal because of that and the extra intimacy it brings i like pussy sex but it will not compare to an anal only journey for me with a partner who wants the same like I am as sure as sure I will not miss vaginal penetration.

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Re: Wales UK 44 female

Post by FarmerDan » Tue Jan 09, 2018 4:57 pm

Looking for a compatible partner is an awful business at the best of times! But don't give up, even people that follow teams that are facing relegation and people that like Wagner with their cornflakes find soulmates.

Have you considered a chastity piercing or other chastity device? Actions speak louder than words ... once he has proved his intentions you could allow access again for other forms of play.
It's a lifestyle folks not a 2 minute sprint

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Re: Wales UK 44 female

Post by UKAnalonlylady » Wed Jan 10, 2018 2:03 am

Chastity is a good idea . Someone here mentioned going on mainstream dating sites and mentioning it when I meet someone I like which I guess makes sense but I think that raising something like that just brings out the yes man who will get initial kicks out if it but few will want to stick to it . And then like I've said there's the argument that is likely to be raised that I'm depriving said person and that they will soon want vagina . Of course if someone likes me in many other ways they might be happy to forgo . But I would far prefer to be with someone who is not feeling like he is giving up something he would prefer to have

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Re: Wales UK 44 female

Post by analsexonly » Wed Jan 10, 2018 8:33 am

Chastity devices or tattoos can be an option, but are on the more extreme end of things and certainly not necessary to get one's point across. Perhaps more appropriate in a hookup scenario. But there's certainly nothing wrong with them and they are worth considering if they appeal to you on their own merits—I just don't think they're going to solve an issue of finding a compatible partner who is as enthusiastic about being anal only as you are.

I would say: keep looking, don't give up hope, and when talking with potential partners about being anal only, talk about why it's so important to you and what the benefits of the anal only lifestyle are. Express your enthusiasm about it, and some will be attracted to it for that reason rather than it just being a "weird kink" (which it isn't). Someone knowing what they like and being confident in that preference can be very attractive.

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Re: Wales UK 44 female

Post by nightowl » Wed Jan 10, 2018 2:51 pm

UKAnalonlylady wrote: feeling my sometimes stubborn arse flowering open and I love watching partners eyes light up as he is getting into teasing his cock and my gaping arse after he has relaxed it open The orgasms from anal are In a different league altogether

The flower analogy is so spot on! Its is amazing that such a small intimate part of the body, with a little encouragement, will open up to welcome a penis in and provide such pleasure to both - which in part is probably because the sex has to be more patient, intimate and more considered.

Also the way it can close up after and retain the semen is an underrated perk :twisted:

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Re: Wales UK 44 female

Post by TheDirtyDon » Thu Jan 18, 2018 7:36 am

UKAnalonlylady wrote:Hi mcmoose thanks for the warm welcome

Encouraging to know I'm not the only anal only in the village :P

Your welcome.

Probably the only one in your village and certainly were the only people in ours. Maybe more, not found any yet!
Cheers,

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Re: Wales UK 44 female

Post by Buttwoman » Thu Jan 18, 2018 8:06 am

Wales is in England? When did it move?

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Re: Wales UK 44 female

Post by TheDirtyDon » Thu Jan 18, 2018 8:20 am

Buttwoman wrote:Wales is in England? When did it move?

I can confirm it hasn't. It's still next door to, not in England :)
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Re: Wales UK 44 female

Post by Drei69 » Fri Mar 23, 2018 12:13 pm

UKAnalonlylady wrote:Hi New here and very glad I come across this site! For some years now I've been actively looking for someone who Id be both compatible with in and out the kip who is interested in an anal only relationship I am not remotely interested in hook ups I'm looking for the long term . If your looking for the same, let's talk ;)

Log term member but lost my details. Your post pretty much made me create a new account.

I am just going to say it out straight, wish I met you in London. I would marry you right there on the spot just so you know I am dead serious about your anal neds (ok maybe after a few dates just to make sure we are going to be happy;) ).

Not a proposal but if you are serious and real, I am just a few keys away. Happy to answer any questions. Can pop on Discord and have a chat since it is web based app.

P.S. As an added bonus I am not actually English, just bread and educated in the UK :lol:

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Re: Wales UK 44 female

Post by UKAnalonlylady » Fri May 11, 2018 1:49 am

Just a cheeky bump in the hope that the thread catches the eye of an anal man in Wales :-)

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