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Exploring the possibilities

Posted: Fri Jul 19, 2019 10:52 am
by JmnB33
Hello!

I found this site because of reddit and pretty excited to have like-minded people to talk to.

I've been intrigued by anal since my teens but never enjoyed it until the last few months. Now it seems that I've become anal-centric? My husband and I still enjoy playing with my pussy (especially oral/ foreplay), but I only want him to finish in my ass now. I've become obsessed with keeping his cum in my ass as long as i can, which only makes me want it more :lol:

I'm starting to learn how to learn how to orgasm from anal without clit stimulation, too.

Im really excited to see where this takes me :D

Re: Exploring the possibilities

Posted: Tue Jul 23, 2019 5:57 am
by amaizeg
In my experience enjoyable anal sex has a lot to do with trust and comfidence in your partner. I guess after being together for so long you have built that up.

I'd recommend finding out which positions and practices turn you on most and expanding on that. I know that pure anal orgasms are possible if you find the way how you can get swept up in the experience.

Re: Exploring the possibilities

Posted: Thu Jul 25, 2019 7:13 pm
by analsexonly
Welcome, @JmnB33! Congratulations on discovering how amazing anal truly is—once you figure that out, becoming anal-centric is pretty natural! How often would you say that you're having vaginal intercourse compared to anal now at this point? Is shifting away from that towards purely anal penetration something that interests you? Plenty of people are anal only for penetration but may still involve clit stimulation during oral or for foreplay or to orgasm during anal penetration—but as you're probably discovering through your experimentation with anal only orgasms, there are advantages to moving away from that as well!

Re: Exploring the possibilities

Posted: Wed Feb 26, 2020 9:28 am
by JmnB33
Now that it's been almost a year (oops for not coming back sooner) we've been mostly anal only this entire time. But not once have we finished vaginally in that time. We're moving away from P.I.V altogether in the last few weeks. We still like oral, but even that has moved more towards rimming. I love the denial aspect and how it all ups my eagerness for the next day. Then sitting on my largest plug (2.5 inch diameter) and feeling the stretch knowing that I still can't quite fit it all the way. Knowing that he wil be able to take me at will and slip in all the way without hesitation...
I just ordered a blunt plug and happy hour from square peg so that I can stay plugged longer and more comfortably.

Re: Exploring the possibilities

Posted: Wed Mar 04, 2020 7:20 am
by analsexonly
Thanks for the update, and congratulations on making the move away from vaginal entirely. When you say you've been shifting oral to rimming as well, does that go both ways or does the rimming replace cunnilingus while you still give him blowjobs?

It just keeps better the more you move away from vaginal, so you've got all sorts of fun ahead of you! Enjoy the new plugs and the anal sex!

Re: Exploring the possibilities

Posted: Wed Mar 18, 2020 12:11 pm
by JmnB33
Rimming has replaced cunnilingus for the most part. Blowjobs are still apart of the mix.

Re: Exploring the possibilities

Posted: Sat Dec 12, 2020 6:28 pm
by LuvMyRear
That's funny, and very cool! A huge reason I enjoy anal too is because I'm also obsessed with keeping cum up in me. It tries to pour out on its own but different positions keep it up in there. I do enjoy it though and crave it.