First off it's great to hear that you want to lift your sexuality to a new level! To me it is actually not quite clear from you're message what you are afraid of. What do you mean by "if I can fully satisfy myself"? You probably believe, just like most of women, that sexual satisfaction is not possible if your pussy or clit is not involved. But that is just not true. Our body is capable to feel pleasure in so many different ways. But these ways are malleable and will be defined by the actions we take to find satisfaction. So if you say that you like to masturbate a lot, your body most likely has learned, that you want your pussy to be the main source of your pleasure.
Luckily, since you already love Anal sex, there is a good chance you will be able to replace your body's current pleasure focus on your pussy with your asshole. I don't say, this is going to be easy, Learning new things never is. But it is possible!
My advice (as a man) would be to not expect you'll be Anal Only over night. Recognize that your body currently sees your pussy as your primary source of your pleasure. Don't fight this but rather convince it that your Asshole is it's real center of pleasure. When ever possible and especially when aroused, show your body the pleasure that your Anus is able to give: caress is, finger it, stretch it and give it your full attention while doing so. Try to avoid touching your pussy in the meantime. Because of the strong bond between body and pussy it would only conceal or even take over the pleasure your Asshole will provide. When with a man tell him you would prefer it if he could pay extra attention to it. Most will be more than happy to help you to train your body by fondling, licking, fingering and (of course ) penetrating your Anus. Talking with a partner about Anal Sex can also have a very positive effect, because it will also shift your own perception of your sexuality from your pussy to your Asshole.
Hope this thoughts will help you find real satisfaction
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I'd suggest trying it for a month or two and see how it goes. For some people it can take a few attempts to finally get there, but once you do, it's well worth it.
Some people do anal only for penetration but still include clitoral stimulation, while others exclude clit play too. If you're concerned about being satisfied with just anal penetration, try for always including anal with masturbation or sex but also combining it with clit play if needed.