I had a 5-years relationship with a girl who absolutely hated anal. All kinks in the world seemed to be better than that for her. For someone who always has been attracted by the intimacy of a girl’s asshole and even had talked his very first girlfriend into anal sex as a teenager, the sacrifice for me was huge.
When we broke up last year, which anal was not the reason for, I decided to focus on the right things and look for anal sex in the first place. Now, not many girls wear T-shirts saying ‘I do anal’, so the most logical way for me seemed to use what everybody uses to get laid: tinder.
When I chat with a girl there, I tell her that I’m not only looking just for sex, but for anal sex. No surprise this narrows down the amount of dates I get extremely. But I must say, results are quite okay-ish. Better than expected at least.
Anyone else here using tinder to do anal only? Looking forward to read your thoughts.
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My experience is backed up by recent surveys which show that the majority of sexually active women are interested in trying anal; but the majority of those who do find it so uncomfortable the first time that they give it up for ever. Guys, we can do better!
I find it more successful to use terms like 'sexually adventurous'. That lets most people know that anal could be on the menu, and it gives a reason to get to know each other before the specifics come up. In my dating prime I had a strike rate close to 100%, and the exception was a girl who was more than happy to take the 'top' role
On more than one occasion anal was the first penetrative sex I had with a new partner.
As I like to say in answer to 'how to I find an anal only woman?': You make your own...
I never used tinder and I don't think I would.
I have meet too many idiots online that I wouldn't go to such an app.
I guess the other girls must be the same and that's why Tinder is not working for you in your search for girls for anal
As for me I look both online and offline. So idk I won’t say much other than we aren’t all the same and can’t go by what other people do to you. Gotta keep trying to look for what you want. Cause the day you stop that’s the day the idiots online and offline win.
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I was thinking about creating a pseudonymous Tinder profile to try find like-minded women about anal, but I'm not sure that would be a good idea. I'd like to know from people here, do you think It would be offensive to be open about it in my description?