So happy you are here. I find it interesting -- both how much you love anal and your feelings toward vaginal. I too discovered anal pretty early when I dated a girl who would not blow me -- but would eat my ass constantly. All the time. It was the greatest feeling ever, so I did it back to her. We ended up anal only for a year or so before we broke up. We did not discuss her feelings toward vag -- because -- it did not come up. If we were not eating each other's asses -- my dick was in her ass. There was some rubbing of the front, but no PIV. Later I heard she had vaginismus. Then things started to fall into place. Do you thing vaginismus might b part of your sexuality? Well, the most positive thing is -- although I never called it as such -- I lived an anal only lifestyle early on. It really helped me because I considered it only natural whenever I was lucky enough to meet a girl open to anal. By that I mean - deep anal penetration. Analingus was almost universally accepted. So I have never judged anal women or myself for something that has stood me in good stead for a long time. Yes, it can be frustrating to meet a partner who is not down with all of it. But when you do, it is magic. Thanks for sharing!
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You mentioned that you weren't anal only when you first discovered anal, but you also say that you are a vaginal virgin. Do you mean that you used to play with your pussy some back then before deciding to go anal only, but haven't had sex with a partner, and have since decided to be anal only and stop using your pussy? Just clarifying to make sure I understand, no judgement either way!
I think it's pretty common for a lot of people who are into anal only to be turned off or even repulsed by vaginal after a while.