I've lurked around here for a while and always admired the community although I am not sure if I will be accepted as a true believer! I'm obsessed with anal, but pretty obsessed with oral and a big fan of vaginal too. However in my current relationship I've started using Anal Only as part of a domestic discipline training protocol. When my girlfriend does not follow her rules for a first offense she gets a warning but for a 2nd offense she receives a Discipline Spanking and a 24 hour Total Pussy Timeout. During that time we will have oral and anal sex repeatedly but her pussy/clit receive no attention whatsoever. The effect of this protocol on her demeanor has been outstanding in every way and it will definitely continue although I am still considering whether I will experiment with longer duration for her Total Pussy Timeouts. I realize this is not a "true" anal only relationship but I thought it would be fun to share.
As for Anal Only, you apply it as punishment, I think it is not the right approach, go Anal Only is about her pleasure place being her ass and not her pussy.
In the best case, she will like the anal more and she will want it, but if that happens, what you use as punishment will no longer make sense, it is like giving her a reward.
In fact I consider a reward to myself going anal only
Luck with that anyway
I was in a relationship similar to yours and while we were apart and sexting about anal as punishment for disobedience it was amazing. When we were together, it seemed to be more torture and while it wasn't for her to "enjoy" punishment, torturing her wasn't my aim. Anal was apart of our normal routine and she enjoyed it, willingly.
It's worth mentioning that my girlfriend absolutely loves anal and can orgasm from anal without any attention for her pussy whatsoever. However the orgasm is different if she can rub her clit and she likes to do so. However (again) we both get off tremendously on the power exchange aspect of our relationship and my control over her. So it seems the Pussy Timeout works for us as part of a discipline routine - it feels like a punishment to her to a sufficient extent that it is effective in correcting behavior, but it's one she gets off on enduring.
Yesterday was day 1 for her period and she was having a rough day - back aches and feelings and all that. She spent a long time sucking Daddy's dick after dinner which always makes her feel better, and then we had an intimate and passionate anal session. No pussy/clit contact whatsoever and she had many very powerful orgasms.
This morning, after more dick sucking and a maintenance spanking session, I offered her vibrator to her for use on her clit while I fucked her ass but she declined it! She didn't want to get in the way of how I was going to fuck her asshole. And she's right it's easier for me to fuck her asshole the way both of us love when she is not bothering with trying to stimulate her pussy.
I know it's still not an anal only relationship but I thought some around here might enjoy hearing the update
In my experience, clit (or penis) denial with anal only generates a gigantic shift in arousal, submission, obedience and focus, including domestic discipline. Being able to orgasm only from anal completely changes your perspective.
Maybe your girlfriend is slowly making that shift, and wants to try denial by herself. It's really worth it, to obtain more pleasure in the end, to increase your couple dynamics, and reinforce your relationship.
She is able to orgasm from anal only already -- in fact just last week due to her period and a discipline action she was anal only for 6 days in a row. She had countless orgasms during that time, but she was desperate to be allowed to touch her clit and get her pussy fucked again by the end.
I guess what you meant was not as much the ability to have a single orgasm with only anal, but the knowledge that (perpetually?) anal would be her only source for orgasms. I can see how that would change one's perspective! Presently, I think what is driving her obedience is the knowledge that she will only be allowed pussy pleasure if she pleases me, but if she didn't have the hope of it I am not sure how it would affect her. Fascinating to consider though.
From what you say, my bet is that she still wants pussy action for relief rather than for pleasure. Ideally, she should enjoy more and more the frustration/arousal, and become addicted to it because of all the pleasure it gives... you'd then be able to have her 100% anal only with clitoral denial with no time limit.
Frankly, I doubt she just accepts the situation in the hope she gets pussy action, I rather think she has ambiguous sensations about it. It's often the case with denial: you hate it, but you love it. And the more you do it, the more you're addicted to it.
Frankly, I think that any person who exclusively likes to be penetrated, male or female, should practice strict genital denial and anal only. It improves sex and relationships in amazing ways, as well as provides natural birth control without the use of dangerous chemicals.