Introductions, and how anal saved my sex life!
Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2020 1:05 am
Hi, my name is Sara and I come from Sweden, and I am 18 years old.
I found this community, after searching for other people with similar experiences, allthough my background might be another than most others here.
As long as I can remember I have been experiencing pain and uncomfortable "burning sensations" when touching my vagina. I did not understand why, and it took me a lot of time before i got diagnosed with Vulvodynia (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vulvodynia). Is there anyone else here with the same background?
As a teenager this was something that gave me a bit of issues when I got my period, etc, but the problems reached another level when I got my first boyfriend that I wanted to become sexually involved with. After trying and messing around with oral sex and tried vaginal sex for some time, always with uncomfort or even pain as a result, we started trying with anal sex, and this was the only thing that worked good for us! Obviously there was things to learn, and to try carefully, but with practice I could even learn to orgasm through anal sex. At last I could have a working sex life with my boyfriend, and feel (almost) like anybody else!
In Sweden, parents normally does not have any taboos with teenagers having sex, and birth control pills or condoms are available, and we get information about this in schools in general, so I dont have the same background in being curios for anal sex, as most other people here do?
I guess, that many guys (and maybe girls also) have nasty dreams and get really turned on by anal sex, while others want to explore it as a birth control? This must be cultural differences, since we dont have taboos with birth control in Sweden.
Are there also differencies depending on age? I guess anal is more common in younger people, than older, since the subject is less taboo, and more available via porn, and internet, etc?
Please share your background, why you got into anal!
Love / Sara
I found this community, after searching for other people with similar experiences, allthough my background might be another than most others here.
As long as I can remember I have been experiencing pain and uncomfortable "burning sensations" when touching my vagina. I did not understand why, and it took me a lot of time before i got diagnosed with Vulvodynia (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vulvodynia). Is there anyone else here with the same background?
As a teenager this was something that gave me a bit of issues when I got my period, etc, but the problems reached another level when I got my first boyfriend that I wanted to become sexually involved with. After trying and messing around with oral sex and tried vaginal sex for some time, always with uncomfort or even pain as a result, we started trying with anal sex, and this was the only thing that worked good for us! Obviously there was things to learn, and to try carefully, but with practice I could even learn to orgasm through anal sex. At last I could have a working sex life with my boyfriend, and feel (almost) like anybody else!
In Sweden, parents normally does not have any taboos with teenagers having sex, and birth control pills or condoms are available, and we get information about this in schools in general, so I dont have the same background in being curios for anal sex, as most other people here do?
I guess, that many guys (and maybe girls also) have nasty dreams and get really turned on by anal sex, while others want to explore it as a birth control? This must be cultural differences, since we dont have taboos with birth control in Sweden.
Are there also differencies depending on age? I guess anal is more common in younger people, than older, since the subject is less taboo, and more available via porn, and internet, etc?
Please share your background, why you got into anal!
Love / Sara