40 F here, new to the AO Lifestyle. I haven’t actually begun my journey as AO yet. It’s something I discovered recently while evolving in my submissive role. I just got out of a relationship with someone who loves my pussy more than anal so, it was impossible to het him to even go AO with me temporarily.
But it was because of something he did that got me into this. Basically, he has a thing against period sex, but we were still so horny when I had my period that he decided to go anal on me one morning. And from then on that’s what we did instead of PIV see during that time. What I noticed was the sexual rush I’d get from being teased. From almost getting what I really wanted - my pussy taken and the resulting big O - and getting something else instead. I cannot come from anal. I can get to a point where it almost feels like I’m climaxing but then the feeling drops. What happens is that I’m left feeling super horny because my orgasm needs weren’t fulfilled and I stay aroused for days on end. It’s crazy. I love it.
So for me the whole appeal of AO is like an orgasm denial thing. I love PIV sex, but there does seem to be that reduction in arousal thing after having been satisfied completely. I love being teased, I love the submissiveness of the act, I love when he came inside me that way because he would never cum on my pussy, it made me a better partner to him. It’s a weird effect. Totally unexpected. So now in my next relationship I Want to be AO.
I should also note, I don’t touch or rub my clit myself. I never have. I don’t get much pleasure when I touch myself. I’m not someone who can cum from clit stimulation. I’m one of the few women who can cum from vaginal penetration. And only in missionary position. But if my partner touches my clit or fingers me I definitely love it and wet myself and get really turned on. So I’d love it if my partner would tease me by touching me to get me super turned on and close to cumming but then never fucking my pussy, only my ass. Wow. That is my ideal situation. Also an AO sex goal for me would be to squirt solely from anal. I squirt a lot from being touched and PIV sex already.
The denial and constant horniness is amazing - or so i have been told - for many women. I can tell you that it sure is an incredible feeling for a man too.
Once you do get that elusive anal orgasm I am sure it will blow your mind, and once you know the path you can choose for denial or for letting go as you wish. Then you will be completely in control of your anal pleasure.
I hope you find a partner to open up your ass - and only your ass - for this experience.
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