Introduction and trying to be more open from Germany

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moregape
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Introduction and trying to be more open from Germany

Post by moregape » Sat Mar 20, 2021 5:11 pm

Hi to all!

after reading a long time in this forum and coming from a long relationship where my fetishes were noticed and accepted but never fully encouraged, I've decided to open up more in this regard and be more active in this wonderfull forum.
Everything I read here makes me feel so at home and "right". Thank you all for that, guys.
Im a guy in the beginning of my forties from Germany, located somewhere north of Frankfurt.

I'm naturally more on the dominant part and I love anal sex (active/passive), which does not mean I'm not willing to switch in the right situation and the right encouragement/acceptance.
Anal is my main kink/fetish since the first time I've watched porn. I was always more interessted in the "forbidden" hole and the rough part of sex, not much interested in vanilla from the beginning. Which does not mean that I won't/can't be romantic... I love to adore women and everything around them as well as teasing and playing around each other as a turn on.

After time in my youth my kinks developed and I started playing with my ass besides masturbating to mostly anal porn. When started dating as a late teen I've always hidden that side as most of the girls seem unconfortable and I thought I was a pervert and they find me disguting.
After time I've opened up a little but none of my girlfriends then had the same passion as me for anal. Gues we all were to young.
In one of my first long-time relationships anal went more in to normal sexual play and my then-girlfriend surprised me with a strap-on on my birthday. I loved it... but of course the one she'd choosen was not enough for me 😉

After that relationship, in my end twenties, I did not date for a longer time but had a sexual relation to a women which was totally into it. As well as the overall rough sex (anal, deepthroat, atm, piss) and kinky plays, vulgar dirty talk as well as fisting, which I always loved watching in porn.
I have rather large hands as I'm a big guy (over 190cm, wide/broad statue) and never thought I could actually fist a woman. But she was kind of a size queen an she totally mirrored my fascination and desire for gaping and stretching (pussy and ass). She also fisted me, which she loved as I was absolutely out of control and "in her hands".
After a while we went anal only and we loved it. she was natural getting very wet in the ass and did not want to warm up as the loved the initial "being used", stretching and bit by bit filling her out as my cock went deeper. She loved getting fisted in her cunt and fucked anal at the same time. She absolutely loved the wideness, loosenes and fullnes which is also one of my big turn ons, especially for the pussy. For me the word bucket-cunt is a compliment.
Regarding assholes I love the used loose dark ones. Where, when closed, you can see the bigger/well developed sphincter which indicates much and rough fucking has happened to this hole and teaeses it's size when opened up and played with. Another ultimate turn on in this regard is the "This hole is made for cock, needs to be fucked, stuffed and stretched a lot. Don't waste your time with smal things, give me more!".

I love playing with taboos as they are the "forbidden" things which always made me curious from the beginning of my sex life. But also need the encouregement and the "safety" that everything I like is endorsed and "good" with the woman I'm with. I think that's the trust that has to built up, but maybe I need that extra encouregement once in a while.
This could lie in the "you're a pervert" thinking from my youth.

I understood and accept what I need, what I wan't and what I can give - espicially after that last long term relation which ended last year. I want to be more communicative about my kinks and turn ons as I think this is one part a fullfilling relationship.

I love the knowledge that the ass is the main hole and dream of the secure knowing that both get hooked on fucking each others asses.
Also, despite my dominant nature, I love being dominated and fucked in all different ways. Including fisting, strap-on and deepthroating the strap-on. Although I know I'm not gay, big cocks (rubber) amaze me.
My real dream is to meet a self conscious, slutty at the right time, women who loves and accepts her kinks and pursuit them to explore them more and more everytime. Who thinks the only place for a cock is her ass and her throat, and that her pussy needs to be large, stretched and filled as much and as often as possible. Who loves big toys, Plugs, rimming, deepthroat, squirting, touching the extreme and who gets aroused by wanting/needing dirty/forbidden things and does not hesitate if it get's messy and all in all prefers rough fucking.
Who needs the safety of someone who totally understands this situations/kinks and will enourage all this and make her feel safe while wanting anything in this direction.

For now maybe someone (sorry, only female when getting sexual) likes to chat and share their wants and needs and how you became confortable with your kinks. Maybe sexting to get-off together and be comfortable with their fetishes.

Ok, that got longer as I intended. Sorry, that I got carried away.
I hope you did understand how much the things you all write and say mean to me and helped me to be more open and stand to my "inner needs" albeit it is kind of difficult.

Cheers and best,
moregape

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Re: Introduction and trying to be more open from Germany

Post by amaizeg » Sun Mar 21, 2021 5:29 pm

Hey, no need to apologize.
Thanks for sharing, and it's wonderful to know that all of us have contributed to making you feel more confident about your sexuality.

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Re: Introduction and trying to be more open from Germany

Post by Sphincter.Stretcher » Mon Mar 22, 2021 4:11 am

Welcome to the forum! You are amongst friends here. And thank you for your introduction.

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