I'm sander, mid 30 and a big fan of anal play, giving/receiving. Although my girlfriend fingers my ass, that is about the limit and she doesn't like it unfortunately besides a finger now and then. It doesn't really help in this case I don't have the smallest cock with almost 9 inch (really not to drag). We love each other very much for over years, so she let's me free to experiment with others, although I didn't find anyone yet. Here to learn from others!