I am so happy to have found this forum! I wish we had found it years ago.
My name is Leigh, I am a married mother of 3 from Canada. I am 38yo and we have been anal-only since we married 16 years ago, with the exception of making babies.
Our decision to commit to this lifestyle was out of love and respect to my husband. He is very much my HOH and we live an active and open D/s lifestyle. No, I am not a mindless submissive doormat! But I follow his lead in everything. My commitment to anal-only is very important to me. We have developed a belief that vaginal penetration should only be for making babies or for medical examinations. It is an ongoing dedication to him and our lifestyle.
Yes I will admit that I sometimes miss and crave vaginal sex! But giving in to that kind of need is a show of weakness. Our commitment to this has created an incredible closeness, trust and intimacy.
Hope to hear from you!
There is something deliciously submissive about receiving anal, especially if you do nothing to "speed the process' and depend upon the slow but steady natural build up of energy to bring you over the edge.