Hello everyone
Throughout my two decades of adult life, anal sex has played an important part, and dominated my fantasies both heterosexual and bisexual. Until a month ago I have been in a long-term relationship with a young woman from North Africa, AO by choice to keep her virginity for a prospective husband (that it was not myself - we clarified very early into our acquaintancy).
It was in this relationship that I realised that AO is a huge turn-on for me, and has always been but usually kept secret from myself. Much part of this was about some fears around homosexuality - and it took many years of experience and some trial and error to define myself with new clarity.
Great to see a community - if informal - of like minded people. How could I have not known such an obvious, fundamental thing about myself? Sometimes, it takes someone else to be pioneer. So, thank you all for being here and sharing. I look forward to a chance to add my 2c.
Hi from London
Re: Hi from London
It's quite weird that anal is associated with homosexuality that much. I doubt that all gay guys do anal. I used to have a gay boss years ago who was disgusted by it. I shrugged when he mentionned his digust for it and so he asked me if I was into that. I said yes, with women, and he was both amazed and horrified at the same time.
Anyway, like what you like and forget about these sorts of labels.
Anyway, like what you like and forget about these sorts of labels.
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Re: Hi from London
doomgcx wrote: ↑Sun Jun 27, 2021 4:00 pmIt's quite weird that anal is associated with homosexuality that much. I doubt that all gay guys do anal. I used to have a gay boss years ago who was disgusted by it. I shrugged when he mentionned his digust for it and so he asked me if I was into that. I said yes, with women, and he was both amazed and horrified at the same time.
Anyway, like what you like and forget about these sorts of labels.
Well, you know labeling has to be viewed as a mere categorization that influence our stereotyping of others
IMO that's how bigotry works.
Anal = gay Never met a gay boss before, but many preachers are: they are everywhere in the world.
