Hi from London
Posted: Sun Jun 27, 2021 12:22 pm
Hello everyone
Throughout my two decades of adult life, anal sex has played an important part, and dominated my fantasies both heterosexual and bisexual. Until a month ago I have been in a long-term relationship with a young woman from North Africa, AO by choice to keep her virginity for a prospective husband (that it was not myself - we clarified very early into our acquaintancy).
It was in this relationship that I realised that AO is a huge turn-on for me, and has always been but usually kept secret from myself. Much part of this was about some fears around homosexuality - and it took many years of experience and some trial and error to define myself with new clarity.
Great to see a community - if informal - of like minded people. How could I have not known such an obvious, fundamental thing about myself? Sometimes, it takes someone else to be pioneer. So, thank you all for being here and sharing. I look forward to a chance to add my 2c.
Throughout my two decades of adult life, anal sex has played an important part, and dominated my fantasies both heterosexual and bisexual. Until a month ago I have been in a long-term relationship with a young woman from North Africa, AO by choice to keep her virginity for a prospective husband (that it was not myself - we clarified very early into our acquaintancy).
It was in this relationship that I realised that AO is a huge turn-on for me, and has always been but usually kept secret from myself. Much part of this was about some fears around homosexuality - and it took many years of experience and some trial and error to define myself with new clarity.
Great to see a community - if informal - of like minded people. How could I have not known such an obvious, fundamental thing about myself? Sometimes, it takes someone else to be pioneer. So, thank you all for being here and sharing. I look forward to a chance to add my 2c.