AO for life!

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VinceW
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AO for life!

Post by VinceW » Mon Aug 09, 2021 9:04 am

Hello everyone!

I stumbled onto this community quite accidentally (I didn't know there was a community, to be honest), I'm fascinated with many of the stories I've read and I thought it appropriate to share my story as it seems relevant to the stated goal of this community.

I'm a 29-year-old heterosexual male who's been anal only since college, about 8 years now. A girlfriend I had in my junior year introduced me to anal sex as an experiment since I had never had anal sex before. The very first time she and I had anal sex was nothing short of a transformational experience for me. To me the physical and emotional satisfaction from anal sex was incomparable to anything I had ever experienced from vaginal intercourse and the few additional times that I did have vaginal intercourse with that girlfriend since then were so unsatisfying that I decided to give up vaginal sex. I came to see it as boring and not at all as pleasurable as I once thought it was. Over time I also came to see anal sex as the natural type of intercourse and I still believe that to be the case. She and I didn't date for much longer (she moved to a different college and we just didn't think long-distance would work for us) but I've had 2 serious relationships since then, 1 short-term relationship, and a few flings that I can't really describe as relationships and I've had nothing but anal and oral sex with all of these women.

The first long-term relationship was with a girl I started dating while still in college but we dated for a few years after. She had never had anal sex before we started dating but I was open with her that this is absolutely the only kind of sex I'm interested in having and she agreed to a "trial period". What started out as an experience that she didn't really enjoy but only put up with it because she wanted to please me ended up becoming increasingly more pleasurable to her to the point that she quite enjoyed it and was able to orgasm from it occasionally. Even though she did request vaginal sex a few times (which I declined) I never penetrated her vagina, I enjoyed looking at it during sex as it was beautiful and arousing and it did provide lubrication for her anus but I never experienced what it felt like and I can't say that I've ever regretted abstaining from vaginal sex wit her.

The flings were mostly drunken one-night stands, all anal only and most of them with girls that had had anal sex before. One was with a girl who I knew (not a friend, just an acquaintance) who used me as a rebound for a few weeks and I had no problem with this. She had not had anal sex in the past but she was advised that this was a condition of sexual intercourse with me and and consented.

The short-term relationship I had was with a transgender female, she was assigned male gender at birth but had transitioned before I had met her. She was pre-op but was very feminine in every other respect - drop-dead gorgeous face with a terrific body and beautiful breasts. A part of what attracted me to her was that there wouldn't even need to be a discussion with her about my sexual preferences, anal sex was the only kind of sex we could have. We dated for less than a year but sex with her was some of the best sex I had ever had in my life.

The second long-term relationship I mentioned is the one I'm currently in, with my soon-to-be wife. We've been together for 4 years now, have been engaged for almost a year. She had anal sex with one previous boyfriend (also in college) and she did enjoy it. She only had one other relationship since then and it was with a man who didn't want to try anal sex even though she had repeatedly suggested it. By the time we started dating and having sex she was more than willing to give AO a try and by all accounts we're a match made in heaven. She loves anal sex as much as I do and she's never even requested vaginal sex. She's able to reach orgasm from anal sex almost every time but she never feels unsatisfied even if she doesn't reach orgasm. We've agreed to have vaginal sex when it's time to have children but that will be that. We both have a high sex drive and we both masturbate regularly. She's told me that whenever she masturbates she only does anal masturbation, both because she enjoys it more than vaginal/clitoral stimulation and because she wants to stay committed to our AO lifestyle.

Sexually I've led a very happy and satisfied life so far and no doubt it's because I've chosen AO lifestyle. True, there were opportunities in the past where I missed out on sex or relationships because people weren't willing to consent to my anal only requirements but I'm in a great place in life and I regret nothing. It's great to see there a like-minded people out there. To all of you who have chosen and are actively practicing anal only - congratulations and keep it up! To any of you considering doing this but not 100% sure on whether to take the next step, I say go for it and you'll have nothing but happiness in your life as a result. Anal sex rules!

Vince

Ani
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Re: AO for life!

Post by Ani » Mon Aug 09, 2021 9:25 am

Hello! Thank you for an interesting story!
I am really glad, that you have finally found an appropriate girl for your life!

FTMforeverplugged
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Re: AO for life!

Post by FTMforeverplugged » Tue Aug 10, 2021 2:13 pm

I also didnt know this community actually exists and honestly I am so glad. Everyone is super accepting and kind. We all just love anal!

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Re: AO for life!

Post by Samy » Fri Aug 13, 2021 5:12 pm

Welcome to the board, Vince, your story is inspiring, it's great that you managed to be anal only very early in your sexuality and never compromised. I really feel anal is getting much stronger these last years.

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