So I'm Erin, 58, post-op transgender woman. I'm anal only because let's face it, that's where all the pleasure is.
I'm married, but living single (separated) and play with my toys. Which I have lots of, and mostly the big sizes. I'm into 3 kinds of anal play:
Stretching... currently about 3.3 inch diameter.
Deep insertion... currently between 18-22 inch depth
Object insertion like pool balls, apples etc. 3 pool balls, 2 apples, 5 golf balls max.
Since 2017, after my gender reconstructive surgery, I've only had anal sexual penetration with a guy once. I've not yet been fisted, with the exception of my fist toys.
Oh, BTW, I have limited depth vaginoplasty, meaning no internal vaginal canal, just enough for a finger top or strawberry.
One of the three reasons, next to medical risk, for not going full depth (5 inch or deeper) is that I wasn't interested in vaginal sex and didn't want to give up my anal capabilities I trained on over the many years.
Love, hugs and enjoy playing <3
Richmond VA USA
Enjoy the forum (looks around to see what Pavel's up to)