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Hallo!

I'm Theresa and I live in a small village south of Berlin.

I started with anal quite young, I guess.
Because you usually cannot get your drivers license before 18 in Germany, I was dependent on an older guy to drive me around as a teenager. When I turned 14 he started to ask me to "pay" for the ride. First by sucking him and about a year later he wanted to use my butt.
When I later started to hook up with my boyfriend I thought this is what men want and he is also into it.

I actually found this website because he asked me to search for "anal only" porn for him.
I really like that everybody here is so open and accepting!

What else can I say about me?
I joined the volunteer fire fighters, I am working in a bakery and I am vegan (but I do not eat much anyway...)

Welcome, Theresa!

You seem to have a lovely range of interests.

How did you get started with firefighting?

Welcome and before coming to this site I never realized that some start anal very young. In different ways that is.

Anyway. I think starting sex with anal is sexy as hell. If you like it of course.

Power wrote: ↑

Fri May 20, 2022 2:58 am

Welcome, Theresa!

You seem to have a lovely range of interests.

How did you get started with firefighting?

Thank you!
It sounds more exciting than it is.
We are hanging out, doing some firefighting exercises and organize some events. I did not fight a "real" fire so far. In the last months I did help to cut down some trees that were blocking the roads after a storm...
I joined because there are actually not so many other activities around here and I like being part of something. It's almost only guys but I do not mind. My boyfriend is also there.

Backdoorlover wrote: ↑

Fri May 20, 2022 6:31 am

Welcome and before coming to this site I never realized that some start anal very young. In different ways that is.

Anyway. I think starting sex with anal is sexy as hell. If you like it of course.

Thank you too!
I actually never considered myself to have a decision on that. I mean, who am I to judge what a man wants?
Why do you think this is sexy?

Some men love asses and would love to be anal only, some men feel grossed out by asses and don't want it at all, most men will like to fuck a woman both in ass and pussy and oral....... So it all depends. Seems you were gifted with two boyfriends who were very anally inclined.... But a woman also has a say in what she wants or needs. So, ask yourself if YOU like anal.

Ozzy wrote: ↑

Sat May 21, 2022 6:19 am

But a woman also has a say in what she wants or needs. So, ask yourself if YOU like anal.

I don't know. I was never asked, if I liked anal. It was never important. And I really don't want to tell my boyfriend how he should have sex with me.
I can have an orgasm in my vagina or in my butt. It doesn't matter. But he is almost always finished before that happens anyway.

Theresa wrote: ↑

Fri May 20, 2022 11:10 am

Backdoorlover wrote: ↑

Fri May 20, 2022 6:31 am

Anyway. I think starting sex with anal is sexy as hell. If you like it of course.

Why do you think this is sexy?

Because I have been wanting anal since the age I didn’t even have a girlfriend. My first girlfriend (I was 17) didn’t even want me to say it, let alone do it.

Although it would have been perfect cause she feared getting pregnant so much the sex was simply bad. So anal would have been safer and more fun. And sexy.

Theresa wrote: ↑

Sat May 21, 2022 2:51 pm

Ozzy wrote: ↑

Sat May 21, 2022 6:19 am

But a woman also has a say in what she wants or needs. So, ask yourself if YOU like anal.

I don't know. I was never asked, if I liked anal. It was never important. And I really don't want to tell my boyfriend how he should have sex with me.
I can have an orgasm in my vagina or in my butt. It doesn't matter. But he is almost always finished before that happens anyway.

If you can orgasm from it so you like it..... And you have a very open minded atitude towards it, which is great. In my generation when I was younger (I'm currently 39) it used to be considered something that would degrade women.... It was that kind of subject which "good girls" really hated to talk about. They could do it in their private lives, but they would say "OK I agree with anal but I can't accept anal only without vaginal" (I was told this once by one of my ex girlfriends). But nowadays atitudes are changing, I guess..... And that's very cool, if a woman can say to a partner "I won't tell you how you should have sex with me".

Sometimes I hear complains from people who say they need variety, so they need both anal and vaginal. But sometimes people can be only anal or only vaginal depending on the person they are with, which seems to be your case. I love your enlightment. Welcome to the forum.

Theresa wrote: ↑

Sat May 21, 2022 2:51 pm

Ozzy wrote: ↑

Sat May 21, 2022 6:19 am

But a woman also has a say in what she wants or needs. So, ask yourself if YOU like anal.

But he is almost always finished before that happens anyway.

I'm not sure if I understood it right, but it's unfair if he gets there and you not. That's selfish. He could use his fingers or mouth after he's finished to give you an orgasm as well. Unless orgasm denial is important to you. But why would it be?

@Ozzy, first of all thank you for the nice words about me.

To me, anal sex was never less normal than in my vagina. Perhaps even more what I was used to.
But that's just how I grew up.

I don't think my boyfriend is unfair. He has to worry about so much. When he is with me, he should just relax, blow of steam and do what he likes!
And again, I don't want to tell him how he should have sex with me.
And he lets me masturbate. So I can have an orgasm whenever I want. He just doesn't like how I masturbate.