Curious about AO

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jessica777
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Curious about AO

Post by jessica777 » Mon May 30, 2022 3:00 pm

hi im jessica and im 18 (turning 19 shortly). while exploring my sexuality as a teen i realized that i love anal. but im afraid theres not much i can do as i live with my family (who is very religious and judgemental) and constantly go through my things. so i cannot own toys. so I figured i’d check out some forums online and do a lil experimenting here until i’m able to move out. the only reason i’m still with my family as of now is because im currently in university and trying to save money.

but anyways, i’m not 100% sure if anal only is for me but i would like to learn more. feel free to add me or dm me :)

basic info about me:
- i turn 19 in june
- i live in the u.s.
- i’m 5’4
- i’m a virgin

jessica777
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Re: Curious about AO

Post by jessica777 » Wed Jun 01, 2022 3:07 pm

Thank you so much! You’re so kind :)

funbuckets85
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Re: Curious about AO

Post by funbuckets85 » Thu Jun 02, 2022 8:53 pm

Hi Jessica. I'm religious myself. Sucks how a lot of religious people are judgemental. Sometimes they forget that we are human. Hey no judgement here welcome to the community.

sharwick@comcast.net
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Re: Curious about AO

Post by sharwick@comcast.net » Sat Jun 18, 2022 12:11 am

Your parents might be ok with it if you're saving vaginal for marriage

Analconda
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Re: Curious about AO

Post by Analconda » Mon Jun 20, 2022 11:54 am

Hello Jessica,
Anal it does not hurt anyone.
You have your needs and deserve for some pleasure.

Good luck,
When You want talk, please write me private massage :D

doris
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Re: Curious about AO

Post by doris » Thu Jun 23, 2022 3:02 pm

Hi Jessica,
welcome, i know how you feel, when i was young and lived with my parents i had no toys as well. I used every kind of object as a toy. I stuffed really weird things up my ass. Candles i used pretty much because you get candles in different shapes and sizes. One of my first anal plugs was a knob of a cabinet.
Do

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OCfemboy
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Re: Curious about AO

Post by OCfemboy » Sun Jul 03, 2022 12:17 pm

Hello Jessica,

Thank you for being open and honest about your situation. It takes courage to feel safe enough to share something so sensitive in an effort to obtain more helpful information.

It's kind of funny that about 100+ years ago and back even further, many girls were taught to save themselves for their husbands, so while it was preferred they remain chaste, anal sex was an option explained to them, along with oral. Not every family was so forthright with such beliefs.

All that being said, I know a lot of people who started exploring their anal pleasures while living at home with prudish parents who might not provide the proper level of privacy to their teen children, often going through their things or walking into a bedroom without notice. This makes it difficult, to say the least. One thing most said was the easiest was in the bathroom, particularly the shower, for earlier experiences, often using fingers or even fruit or vegetables (bananas, cucumbers, zucchini, etc.), then getting rid of it afterwards so there's nothing for probing parents to find.

However, if doing this, please make sure you protect yourself by making sure you clean yourself and the item to be inserted first, and there are no rough edges or ends that can scratch your sensitive and vulnerable insides that can cause injury. Nothing could be more embarrassing than having your parents take you to the emergency room due to such an incident.

While you still reside at home, you may find some items that appear innocuous enough that your parents won't suspect anything, unless you start collecting dozens of phallic shaped items in a short period of time. One person I know started "collecting" items they used exclusively for their anal sexual pleasures that they could keep out in the open without anyone suspecting anything, and they said it was particularly arousing to them when people would admire one or more of them, not knowing why they were purchased, where they'd been and how they'd really been enjoyed most.

I wish you well in your endeavors, and can completely relate to your situation. Stay safe, have fun, and good luck!
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Re: Curious about AO

Post by Rimmer » Mon Jul 04, 2022 5:55 am

Hi Jessica, I am a believer, but hopefully not 'religious'. I am glad @funbuckets85 also commented. If you have discovered you like anal fun, then great :) . There is no way Adam didn't give Eve a back rub and think, hmm I wonder what it will feel like if I ease it in there. My wife and I were almost AO for a few years.

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