Greetings from CT

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Jim
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Greetings from CT

Post by Jim » Thu Dec 29, 2022 5:18 pm

Hey everyone,

Nothing better than fucking a woman in the ass! It's the hottest thing in the world. Everyone here understands that, but difficult to find people outside who're wiling to give the lifestyle a shot.

You guys think it'll change?

God I hope so...

Backdoorlover
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Re: Greetings from CT

Post by Backdoorlover » Fri Dec 30, 2022 1:12 am

No. It will keep being a niche and I’m okay with it. Why would we want it to become mainstream anyway ?

Me I’m 52 and my sweety is 51. We feel no urge to tell people we only do anal. It’s what we want. I mean, I never smoked. A smoker can tell me all the time I don’t know what I’m missing, I don’t give a fuck. I will NEVER try it. Same with people who are opposed to anal sex. Why would you even want to change their mind ? Is there some sirt of price attached ? 🤷🏻‍♂️
Backdoorlover’s quote:

“Ass to mouth is the only right way to have sex”🔥

Jim
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Re: Greetings from CT

Post by Jim » Fri Dec 30, 2022 2:20 am

Well said Backdoorlover,

Life should be enjoyed freely, no price-tags. Your sweety and you are fortunate to enjoy this discovery together! Like finding a great view on a scarcely-traveled road? Or a brand new food-cart before the Influencers and TikTokers hold up the line? Then before you know it, all we'll ever hear about are how the Kardashians are doing every episode of their show :lol:

So mainstream isn't ideal. And I think we'd all agree on not forcing any particular way of life over another. But finding people more easily would be a benefit, where acceptance of the idea is to a degree that renders it no longer taboo or -- to some people, even -- an offensive thought!

That was kind of my thought earlier. Hoping to find my sweety too someday, you know?

Colt1911
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Re: Greetings from CT

Post by Colt1911 » Fri Dec 30, 2022 8:22 am

Jim wrote:
Thu Dec 29, 2022 5:18 pm
Hey everyone,

Nothing better than fucking a woman in the ass! It's the hottest thing in the world. Everyone here understands that, but difficult to find people outside who're wiling to give the lifestyle a shot.

You guys think it'll change?

God I hope so...

Welcome! I do think it’s changing. The proliferation of anal porn over the decades creates curiosity. Curiosity will create experimentation, and experimentation will result in more people experiencing anal pleasure. Not all, but enough to significantly move the needle.

Backdoor lover and I take the anal lifestyle for granted as we’re in long term relationships. Search this site for suggestions on how to approach anal sex in new relationships. I believe a skilled person can “teach” their partner how to enjoy anal sex, but it takes patience and some skill. It’s how my wife and I became anal only almost five years ago. We’ve been married for 41 years.

There’s been discussion on this forum about letting a prospective partner know your strong desire for anal. Backdoorlover and I don’t have to worry about this, but I think I’d have to let a prospective lover know my preference early in a relationship. As I’ve indicated above, I believe someone can learn to enjoy anal when approached the right way. From my perspective, patient and gentle anal play is key. The objective is to get her to crave anal penetration. I believe there’s a strong chance she enjoys it and wants more. There’s also the possibility she doesn’t, and if anal sex is important in your relationship, you’ll move on.

Some on this forum have discussed fetish websites where you may be able to find like minded partners. I can’t speak to that, but it might be a way to focus your search for someone who enjoys anal sex as much as you do. Welcome!

Jim
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Re: Greetings from CT

Post by Jim » Fri Dec 30, 2022 11:51 am

Thanks for the kind words Colt! Great weapon by the way... You and backdoorlover are good examples; the AO lifestyle is possible and comes secondary to a healthy, compassionate relationship.

I will follow your advice. Hoping 2023 will be a good year!

Happy holidays,
Jim

Json.s
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Re: Greetings from CT

Post by Json.s » Thu Jan 05, 2023 8:51 pm

Jim wrote:
Thu Dec 29, 2022 5:18 pm
Hey everyone,

Nothing better than fucking a woman in the ass! It's the hottest thing in the world. Everyone here understands that, but difficult to find people outside who're wiling to give the lifestyle a shot.

You guys think it'll change?

God I hope so...

Honestly, sometimes finding someone compatible can be hard, but man when you do it makes it all more special and sexy. Like when you both look at eachother with that dirty look and know what you're about to do is taboo but you both want it, nothing is better.

Jim
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Re: Greetings from CT

Post by Jim » Sat Jan 07, 2023 4:47 am

Json.s wrote:
Thu Jan 05, 2023 8:51 pm

Honestly, sometimes finding someone compatible can be hard, but man when you do it makes it all more special and sexy. Like when you both look at eachother with that dirty look and know what you're about to do is taboo but you both want it, nothing is better.

Hell yeah brother, that's the dream right there.

Wishing you a great year!

Json.s
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Re: Greetings from CT

Post by Json.s » Mon Jan 09, 2023 5:15 pm

You too Jim!

canadianbuttluvr
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Re: Greetings from CT

Post by canadianbuttluvr » Thu Jan 12, 2023 1:28 pm

If you can find someone compatible that’s great, but sometimes it takes time to build that. My wife and I were virgins when we got married and we were married 15 years before my wife was willing to even try anal, which BTW, she said she was only doing to make me happy as she couldn’t anticipate finding it enjoyable.

We’ve been married 23 years now and we both really enjoy anal sex. Would I say it’s my wife’s favourite, no, but she absolutely does enjoy it. And, now that we are in our 40s, it’s the only sure fire way for her to have multiple orgasms. I actually believe based on the progress that we will continue to have more anal sex over time for which I can’t wait!

Now, while my wife and I are committed to a life long relationship, god forbid something should happen to her and I was looking for another partner, I would definitely be up front about where my preferences lie.

Colt1911
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Re: Greetings from CT

Post by Colt1911 » Fri Jan 13, 2023 8:43 am

canadianbuttluvr wrote:
Thu Jan 12, 2023 1:28 pm
If you can find someone compatible that’s great, but sometimes it takes time to build that. My wife and I were virgins when we got married and we were married 15 years before my wife was willing to even try anal, which BTW, she said she was only doing to make me happy as she couldn’t anticipate finding it enjoyable.

We’ve been married 23 years now and we both really enjoy anal sex. Would I say it’s my wife’s favourite, no, but she absolutely does enjoy it. And, now that we are in our 40s, it’s the only sure fire way for her to have multiple orgasms. I actually believe based on the progress that we will continue to have more anal sex over time for which I can’t wait!

Now, while my wife and I are committed to a life long relationship, god forbid something should happen to her and I was looking for another partner, I would definitely be up front about where my preferences lie.

Our story is similar to yours except we’re older and we discovered anal after many more years of marriage. Like you if something happened, God forbid, I would be very clear letting a partner know my preference. After nearly five years of anal only, I believe I’ve learned enough to help a woman new to anal enjoy the experience. I hope I never have that opportunity, but for others who do I think it’s possible.

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