Hello as a new member

[Issyvin]

Hi everyone,
As suggested on joining the group I am writing a brief introduction about myself and circumstances for joining.
I am a 40 year old woman. By nature I would describe myself as relatively passive by nature. I do have some piercings already. My boyfriend has told me he is very keen that I get some more and in particular my clit hood done and ideally my pussy lips. When we talked about it more he has admitted that ideally he would like my pussy pierced multiple times and possibly tattooed to look pretty as it should be as pretty and feminine as possible. He’s also told me he believes my pussy should then be admired but not used and he would prefer only anal and oral sex. When I tried to talk to him more to understand what is involved in having my pussy pierced, pierced in what ways, healing times and things he suggested I look at this site.
So here I am and hoping to understand better what he is looking for me to ideally have done so I can discuss it with him properly.
Sofia

[pygophile]

Be careful you're not being pushed or manipulated into a lifestyle you don't want. It sounds like you're doing this for your boyfriend and I think you should consider if this is what you truly want and/or are okay with

[Issyvin]

Thanks for the reply. I have my nipples pierced and belly, nose and ears. I have wondered about having my pussy pierced and through me mentioning that to my bf is what resulted in my bf telling me about what he would like. I am interested to learn more because I did find the thought quite exciting and would like to learn and know more.

[Colt1911]

Thanks for the reply. I have my nipples pierced and belly, nose and ears. I have wondered about having my pussy pierced and through me mentioning that to my bf is what resulted in my bf telling me about what he would like. I am interested to learn more because I did find the thought quite exciting and would like to learn and know more.

Happy to offer advice on anal sex but I’m afraid I won’t be able to offer much on pussy lip and clitoral hood piercings except to say I find the clitoral hood piercings very erotic. I found this blog discussing the pros and cons of clitoral hood piercings. Hope this helps.
https://theprincessfantasy.com/blogs/ne ... -it-safely

[Issyvin]

Thanks for the message. My bf is interested in having only anal and oral sex with me. He showed me a picture of a girl with pussy piercings and several rings on each side of her pussy and then padlocks on them so in essence displaying that she was AO. The thought of only having anal and oral sex is strangely exciting and when he mentioned this site I thought I’d join to find out more.

[Backdoorlover]

Things I don’t see answered:

Do you agree to stop pussy sex ? Or are you already anal only ?

Cause closing your pussy when you’re not yet anal only, is skipping some step, which I would advice against.
Further I get the idea that you are willing to do a clit piercing by your own choice ? Cause I think a clit piercing looks great, provided the girl wants it herself.

[Issyvin]

Thanks for your message.

We had been having sex in my pussy originally when I started seeing my bf. But it wasn’t long before he suggested anal and we started having anal as well. After just few weeks it became clear he preferred anal and he has almost entirely anal with me now. Pussy sex with me is probably represents only 5-10% of our sex life now and therefore once a week a most. I can’t really explain why but the thought of him only having anal with me is strangely exciting and thrilling and I look forward to feeling him there.

I am interested in having my clit pierced yes. It has been something that has interested me for a while and I’d mentioned it to my bf. He then suggested that he’d love to see me have my lips pierced as well. That’s what took our conversation on to me being anal only. He’s said if anal only we could decorate my pussy with piercings more and show my pussy is no longer for sex by say having little padlocks on the pussy rings. He said it would look really pretty as my pussy would become something pretty and decorated to be admired rather than for sex. That’s when he suggested I look at this site to learn more about being anal only. As I said i do find it strangely appealing and exciting. I do enjoy having anal sex as after 2 kids I am not so tight or sensitive in my Pussy any more.

[Backdoorlover]

I personally think a clit piercing looks really beautiful. I recently saw this anal only porn acress with a clitpiercing that was holding a little heart. I loved the symbolism of that view. So if she’s on her back in front of you, her unused pussy has this tiny heart pointing at you while you only use her asshole.

But closing the lips is not erotic to me. I love seeing my girlfriends pussy. It’s really pretty after more then a year of no penetration. Looks like it’s never been used.

[Issyvin]

Hi, that’s really interesting thank you. It’s giving me ideas that I can talk to my bf about to better understand what he is interested in and why and what appeals to me as well.
As I said becoming AO does excite me. Has your gf had kids like I have if you don’t mind my asking? I like the thought of my pussy looking unused again as you describe. Having my clit pierced and a ring in it would allow me to then hang different pendants on it whether that be a heart, a small locket or other pretty things.

I also wanted some advice on anal plugs to understand them better. By wearing them and and for longer does it actually open you up more and make it more and more easy to take a man there? I ask because once the wife bit is in then the actual stem isn’t so big. So is it the actual regular insertion that makes it become easier and more open or is having one inside me going to make me more open anyway just from the stem?

[Backdoorlover]

My girlfriend is 51 and had 4 kids. She never really liked pussy sex. Her asshole will always be her hole of choice to receive my cock. She feels absolutely no desire anymore to have het pussy penetrated and even says “wrong hole !” if I accidently slide to her pussy.

My girlfriend doesn’t wear plugs often yet, due to our current living circumstances. But when she does she says her asshole feels pre-used which makes having her ass fucked feel even better. So experiment with plugs, I guarantee you that you will problably feel more frisky at least.

And concering the piercings. Tell your boyfriend you want the clitpiercing and see what happens from there. Like you said, so much is possible. Like a short string of pearls hanging from the clitpiercing that ticks against your pussy while getting assfucked doggystyle. Sex should mainly be fun and relaxing anyway.