Kind of new

[kdpierre]

I have been here before, but somehow just haven't visited in a really long time, So long in fact that I had to re-register. I go by "KDPierre" and if you're into chastity, BDSM, spanking, DD< or kink in general, odds are you've either read something of mine somewhere or seen one of my illustrations or cartoons. I had a blog "Collected Submissions" for several years but it was yanked down by Google about a year ago for something so stupid, it defies explanation. So...... maybe you know me, or maybe you don't.

For the record of introduction, I fall into the category of a very specific type of anal only, BUT my interest, and my wife's in butt-related fun is pretty solid.

To use labels for brevity, I would say we are basically a kinky couple, rooted in aspects of BDSM and living what is quite seriously a 24/7 FLR, DD, relationship. Her authority trumps mine but is not absolute. What she does have authority over is most aspects of my behavior, and my sexuality. And when it comes to behavior, she has no problem spanking me hard to teach a lesson.

I have no autonomy when it comes to my own pleasure and depend on her permission for everything from self-touching to orgasm. I can't even remember the last time I had an orgasm that was not preceded by her granting permission. As such, she also has full autonomy of her own body and frankly is not fond of penetration nor cunnilingus. She does however, enjoy analingus quite a bit and often orgasms from it, so my "anal only" is just that. If I want oral access to her body, it's her butt.......with her permission. (To be fully transparent, other parts of her are also permitted, and other forms of vulval contact too, just not the usual ones. )

She also enjoys having me plugged at times, and occasionally engages in pegging, though as we've gotten older this has waned a bit. We are "out" as a DD couple to nearly everyone from our kids to trusted friends. No one is freaked by it. Even my mother knew and approved prior to her passing. But even though our DD is probably our main focus, with chastity a close second, the nature of our personalities tends to lead to many anal-oriented activities and given the focus of this blog, let me conclude with what we have done, and still do:

1: One-sided analingus for her (of course)
2: butt plugs for me (standard, bullet-style, and even a tail or two)
3: pegging for me
4: mechanical pegging for me that she controls via remote switch
5: enemas for me
6: burning ointment applied to (my) anus

So, not a shabby list, but the one activity that seems to get the most attention here is noticeably absent: anal penetration. (For the record, I have done this in the past but it is no longer an option for several reasons.)

So there it is. If you have any questions, I'm not shy about answering them.

[Backdoorlover]

I have no clue about the shorts so what is DD and FLR ?

[kdpierre]

Sorry, among my orher online crowd those acronyms are well known. FLR is female led relationship, kind of like a more domestic version of Femdom. In our case my wife Rosa has certain authority but we’re not as absolute and extreme about it as some people take it. Mainly her authority is over my general behavior which leads to DD which is domestic discipline. This is a spanking oriented lifestyle that unlike kink for fun or eroticism is focused on actual behavior. So to put it briefly: my wife is able to make rules for me and have expectations of what she finds acceptable or unacceptable in my general behavior and she can address shortcomings with punishment spankings.