I recently found this board and it's taken the place of watching porn for me lately. I read other people's stories with a vibrator, usually on my ass, until I cum. I wouldn't want to be anal only as I love vaginal sex too, but I have recently found out about anal only chastity belts and I'm turned on by the idea of having a night out wearing one and my ass getting all the attention throughout the night.
I recently got divorced and my ex was obsessed with my ass. I have fucked 5 people since then and none of them worshipped my ass like I need them to. I've learned to be vocal about what I'm into but I don't think any of them have really been on the same wavelength. And I think really great sex can only happen with deep emotional intimacy, and I'm so anxious about facing heartbreak again. I just want someone I feel safe enough with to really surrender to and someone that is worthy of having my amazing ass.
38F East Coast
Re: 38F East Coast
Hey welcome to the forum nice to have some fresh faces here. It’s great that you’ve taken a greater interest in anal better late than never. Would you be interested in talking more? 
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FarmerDan
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Re: 38F East Coast
really great sex can only happen with deep emotional intimacy,
Hear, hear! Nearly all the talk on this and every other forum is about putting part A in slot B.
Anal sex outside of a good connection is probably going to be unsatisfying, uncomfortable, or even outright painful.
It's no coincidence that people around here who report having the best time with it have spent years getting there!
It's a lifestyle folks not a 2 minute sprint
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Backdoorlover
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Welcome and glad you registered. We need people here who post or answer. 
I understand your concern for being hurt again but let me tell you this: if you meet a new guy, he is not your ex. He doesn’t need to earn your trust, you are supposed to give him your full trust cause what your ex did has absolutely nothing to do with any new guy you meet.
I have been married for 23 years, she fucked another married man for the last 14 months of those years. I was heartbroken and mad. But not even for a second did I reflect my insecurity onto any new woman I met. Start with 100% trust or don’t start yet. Cause if you can’t trust him 100% you are not ready for a new relationship yet.
@FarmerDan I had sex in my life with 4 women. I am 53. Why ? Because I don’t do casual sex. Without some sort of connection with the woman in front of me, I don’t even get hard.
I understand your concern for being hurt again but let me tell you this: if you meet a new guy, he is not your ex. He doesn’t need to earn your trust, you are supposed to give him your full trust cause what your ex did has absolutely nothing to do with any new guy you meet.
I have been married for 23 years, she fucked another married man for the last 14 months of those years. I was heartbroken and mad. But not even for a second did I reflect my insecurity onto any new woman I met. Start with 100% trust or don’t start yet. Cause if you can’t trust him 100% you are not ready for a new relationship yet.
@FarmerDan I had sex in my life with 4 women. I am 53. Why ? Because I don’t do casual sex. Without some sort of connection with the woman in front of me, I don’t even get hard.
Backdoorlover’s quote:
“Ass to mouth is the only right way to have sex”
“Ass to mouth is the only right way to have sex”
Re: 38F East Coast
Welcome @WorshipMyAss37! My advice is to give it some time. My guess is you’ll quickly find a man that worships your ass. I also believe established relationships contribute to the quality of anal sex because of the trust factor. The man you’re looking for is out there. Welcome to the forum… we look forward to your contributions.
Re: 38F East Coast
Where on the east coast are you? I have been facung the same thing...Having needs that most girls dont want to or xcare to meet...I am over wasting time and having to deal w heartbreak as well...I loovee asses and would gladly worship yours
...feel free to message me if you want to share stories...
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Hi @WorshipMyAss37!
Transitions feel weird, give yourself time and space.
On the other hand, I love your confidence about your butt, totally felt attracted to your attitude. If I were close to you, I would ask permission from my wife, to give you all the riming and magic words that your premium butt deserves.
Best wishes and happy orgasms for this new stage.
Greetings from Buenos Aires.
Transitions feel weird, give yourself time and space.
On the other hand, I love your confidence about your butt, totally felt attracted to your attitude. If I were close to you, I would ask permission from my wife, to give you all the riming and magic words that your premium butt deserves.
Best wishes and happy orgasms for this new stage.
Greetings from Buenos Aires.
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MindUnlocker
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Re: 38F East Coast
Backdoorlover wrote: ↑Sat Jul 08, 2023 4:19 pmI don’t do casual sex. Without some sort of connection with the woman in front of me, I don’t even get hard.
I can see myself reflected in that sentence. I need the connection to get the things flowing.
Re: 38F East Coast
Everyone has their own preferences and I respect them. Everyone has different hobbies and habits haunt the house
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WorshipMyAss37 wrote: ↑Sat Jul 08, 2023 9:02 amI recently found this board and it's taken the place of watching porn for me lately. I read other people's stories with a vibrator, usually on my ass, until I cum. I wouldn't want to be anal only as I love vaginal sex too, but I have recently found out about anal only chastity belts and I'm turned on by the idea of having a night out wearing one and my ass getting all the attention throughout the night.
I recently got divorced and my ex was obsessed with my ass. I have fucked 5 people since then and none of them worshipped my ass like I need them to. I've learned to be vocal about what I'm into but I don't think any of them have really been on the same wavelength. And I think really great sex can only happen with deep emotional intimacy, and I'm so anxious about facing heartbreak again. I just want someone I feel safe enough with to really surrender to and someone that is worthy of having my amazing ass.
Welcome. Enjoy the form.
Seems like you have been disappointed and the kind of attention your ass has been getting since the divorce. Would you mind telling us what has been missing with the new guys you have been with it? Is it just not enough attention to your ass, or are they not doing something you became accustomed to.
It can be hard adjusting after you've had something for so long that you enjoyed.
