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Just joined the forum. I've been playing with toys very secretly for a few years only when I'm alone and hiding them, but have recently told my girlfriend about my interest in it and she was very welcoming and enjoys it herself. Although she enjoys it, she doesn't quite go as far as I do. I'm starting to move to bigger and more fulfilling toys and really enjoy it. Looking forward to talking to more likeminded people here. I'm a mid 30s male. Also, what I did not tell her, I am somewhat into guys, and very into Trans. This will stay my secret for now.

So you’re bi ?

I personally think it’s not good keeping that a secret. It will make you unhappy and when she finds out - and in time she will - she will feel betrayed.

In any relationship honesty is key. If honesty is not possible, something is wrong.