How we got to anal only
Posted: Mon Nov 17, 2014 12:41 pm
My wife & I have been anal only for 20+ years so I will explain how we chose this mutually beneficial lifestyle.
When we first met and started having sex I noticed that she did not experience orgasm no matter what I tried on her vagina.
I had had previous experience with anal sex and knew that it was capable of producing explosive orgasms in women.
In fact a few of my previous relationships had progressed from anal curious to full blown AO so I decided to gently broach the subject of anal sex with her to see if it would improve our love life.
She had told me that other men had tried once or twice to put it in her ass without any anal foreplay and she had refused so I had an anal virgin and knew I had to play my cards carefully.
I rented the movie Swept Away by Italian director Lena Wertmuller. This hilarious movie has a good simulated anal sex scene.
After the movie we had sex and I gently introduced her to anal. She didn't resist and things went OK but no skyrockets.
My next task was to get her to orgasm during anal. She had told me that she could cum from stimulating her clit with a flexible shower head so I took her to an adult store and we picked out her first vibrator, a little battery model called the Pocket Rocket.
This worked out very well except she takes awhile to cum so we were going through batteries like crazy. She switched to a Whal electric vibrator with a little nub attachment that works very well for her.
So now we were having great anal sex with her having consistent orgasms but we were not yet totally AO.
What made it easy for us to become AO (her suggestion) was the fact that she had recurring urinary tract infections from vaginal sex, making the whole vaginal sex thing somewhat of a hassle for her what with the antibiotics regimen needed a few days later.
So - now she was having intense orgasms with no fear of infection and no worry about birth control - a win/win/win situation for her and fine for me as I much prefer intimate anal sex to vaginal any day.
We had decided not to have children anyway, instead dedicating our working lives to the goal of early retirement so we haven't had vag sex in over 20 years.
The time spent in anal foreplay, the gentle insertion, the slow warmup, her first orgasm and then her second at which point she is totally relaxed and tells me to go ahead and have my cum so I start pounding harder, taking it out to gaze at her beautiful and now gaping ass hole, ai yi yi, which sends me over the edge and I shoot my cum deep in her butt.
Ahh, anal sex is the best!!!
It is good to find this group of caring, helpful adults dedicated to the serious discussion of anal sex and I hope to be an asset to this community.
When we first met and started having sex I noticed that she did not experience orgasm no matter what I tried on her vagina.
I had had previous experience with anal sex and knew that it was capable of producing explosive orgasms in women.
In fact a few of my previous relationships had progressed from anal curious to full blown AO so I decided to gently broach the subject of anal sex with her to see if it would improve our love life.
She had told me that other men had tried once or twice to put it in her ass without any anal foreplay and she had refused so I had an anal virgin and knew I had to play my cards carefully.
I rented the movie Swept Away by Italian director Lena Wertmuller. This hilarious movie has a good simulated anal sex scene.
After the movie we had sex and I gently introduced her to anal. She didn't resist and things went OK but no skyrockets.
My next task was to get her to orgasm during anal. She had told me that she could cum from stimulating her clit with a flexible shower head so I took her to an adult store and we picked out her first vibrator, a little battery model called the Pocket Rocket.
This worked out very well except she takes awhile to cum so we were going through batteries like crazy. She switched to a Whal electric vibrator with a little nub attachment that works very well for her.
So now we were having great anal sex with her having consistent orgasms but we were not yet totally AO.
What made it easy for us to become AO (her suggestion) was the fact that she had recurring urinary tract infections from vaginal sex, making the whole vaginal sex thing somewhat of a hassle for her what with the antibiotics regimen needed a few days later.
So - now she was having intense orgasms with no fear of infection and no worry about birth control - a win/win/win situation for her and fine for me as I much prefer intimate anal sex to vaginal any day.
We had decided not to have children anyway, instead dedicating our working lives to the goal of early retirement so we haven't had vag sex in over 20 years.
The time spent in anal foreplay, the gentle insertion, the slow warmup, her first orgasm and then her second at which point she is totally relaxed and tells me to go ahead and have my cum so I start pounding harder, taking it out to gaze at her beautiful and now gaping ass hole, ai yi yi, which sends me over the edge and I shoot my cum deep in her butt.
Ahh, anal sex is the best!!!
It is good to find this group of caring, helpful adults dedicated to the serious discussion of anal sex and I hope to be an asset to this community.
