Hello from NYC

[fin]

I'm a 30 something guy in NYC, and am really fascinated by the idea of going AO in my next relationship.

I've always had an anal fetish and have had an anal-centric sex life in past relationships, including a one brief anal only relationship when I was too young to know what I wanted. In my '20s I thought I was gifted at anal because girls would always come so much harder it would actually confuse them why they it felt so good. Still though we were never 100% anal, would usually make her come once from vaginal before anal but it was just foreplay for me.

The only non-anal obsessed GF have had was my last one, which taught me that I really do need anal in order to be happy. Unfortunately it took me a few years to figure that out.

I had never even thought anal only might be a thing until I stumbled across this site and the idea has stuck in my head. I don't actually care about the domination aspects, I just get turned on by the idea of a girl coming from her ass getting fucked. If she loved it so much she didn't care about vaginal I would do anything for her. I fear my dream girl may be cray cray. But I might even be OK with that.

[marcus]

Hello fin. Welcome to the fold! And I'm glad you found us. There is something reassuring to know you are actually not at all unusual in this preference that until recently was not socially acceptable. The evidence is starting to stack up that indicates we are probably in fact quite common.

Luckily for you you've had some opportunity to experience living the "lifestyle" even if you didn't recognise it for what it was, or what it meant, at the time.

I think those who are completely satisfied with vaginal sex have no idea what it means for us to have to endure the prospect of not having anal sex on a regular basis. As with you, I also need it to be happy.