I want an anal-only girl. Sounds like a pornographics fantasy, doesn't it? Maybe that's why I've been too shy to admit it and be forthright about it. If anything, it's a romantic fantasy, and I want to make it a romantic reality. I want an anal-only girl. A girl who doesn't want to compromise when it comes to sex. And vaginal sex, apart from its procreative function, is a compromise. It is easy, it does not require preparation, it requires little trust and it takes away the intimacy that is created during anal sex. An anal-only girl understands that.
I'm not interested in a girl's asshole as an idealized hole, I'm interested in exactly what it is, and when our intimacy is established, we will both understand that without the need for her to get embarrassed. There's so much closeness in just that. And I don't expect the inside of her ass to be squeaky clean, because I don't want an idealized hole, I want her very own, very real and very arousing little asshole.
I want an anal-only girl, a girl who carries a small bottle of lube in her purse. She does not have to be experienced in anal, but she needs to know that the first time I take off her panties, I intend on spreading her butt cheeks. And if she is worried or embarrassed, I will help her overcome it, slowly and carefully. And on the nights when she is not able to receive, she does not, letting her energy build until she is ready rather than releasing it by having vaginal sex.
I want a girl who, when we kiss, expects me to slip my hand down the back of her panties, not the front. This girl is hard to find, but maybe this is not so unrealistic after all?
I want an anal-only girl
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Toronto9092
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Re: I want an anal-only girl
Welcome to the forum.
What you want is neither a fantasy nor unrealistic. As you yourself have said, perhaps you were just too shy to admit it, but the desire for AO is not uncommon at all. What I would say, is that perhaps finding a woman who is already AO, as you would wish, is less likely.
If you read peoples experiences here on the forum, the majority have become AO through a stable long-term relationship.
What you want is neither a fantasy nor unrealistic. As you yourself have said, perhaps you were just too shy to admit it, but the desire for AO is not uncommon at all. What I would say, is that perhaps finding a woman who is already AO, as you would wish, is less likely.
If you read peoples experiences here on the forum, the majority have become AO through a stable long-term relationship.
Re: I want an anal-only girl
Welcome Toronto9092!
You can have that anal only girl! Many of us on the forum have done just that, even if before we didn't think it were possible. And from your introduction I'd say you have the right attitude and perspective to make it happen. Most people really have no idea that a relationship based on anal is the more romantic and intimate one. It's the vagina that's been the idealized hole. And of course it has failed to live up to that. As you say, a compromise.
You can have that anal only girl! Many of us on the forum have done just that, even if before we didn't think it were possible. And from your introduction I'd say you have the right attitude and perspective to make it happen. Most people really have no idea that a relationship based on anal is the more romantic and intimate one. It's the vagina that's been the idealized hole. And of course it has failed to live up to that. As you say, a compromise.
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theanon1212
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Re: I want an anal-only girl
Although I didn't understand it at first (in fact it scared me) when my boyfriend said that he wanted me to be anal only with him, I did eventually appreciate his honesty, and knew and trusted him enough to know this wasn't about abuse or some power trip for him. I see his side more clearly now that I've found this message board and read about how this is by no means unique.
I read your introduction more as an admission to yourself perhaps than you yourself realize, which is a good thing. I wish my boyfriend had confessed to me sooner than he had. If you find someone I'd suggest just speaking from the heart and being yourself. I know from experience that keeping something so important bottled up is not going to make it go away. The embarrassment is normal, and even for us now has never totally gone away. I wish I could explain why this is so, but I think women probably feel it more acutely than men.
I love how you want to make it a romantic experience. Many men still don't get this. And also that you can see that there are nights when we can't or don't feel the same need for sex. Despite the fact that things have improved enormously, there are times when my bottom isn't ready for that. But then my boyfriend knows that on the other hand because of my slightly sub nature there are also times when I'll want to give anyway, just for him. Whatever the dynamic, I think you're right about waiting until the energy is right.
I read your introduction more as an admission to yourself perhaps than you yourself realize, which is a good thing. I wish my boyfriend had confessed to me sooner than he had. If you find someone I'd suggest just speaking from the heart and being yourself. I know from experience that keeping something so important bottled up is not going to make it go away. The embarrassment is normal, and even for us now has never totally gone away. I wish I could explain why this is so, but I think women probably feel it more acutely than men.
I love how you want to make it a romantic experience. Many men still don't get this. And also that you can see that there are nights when we can't or don't feel the same need for sex. Despite the fact that things have improved enormously, there are times when my bottom isn't ready for that. But then my boyfriend knows that on the other hand because of my slightly sub nature there are also times when I'll want to give anyway, just for him. Whatever the dynamic, I think you're right about waiting until the energy is right.
Re: I want an anal-only girl
and i desperately looking for this man...
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realsparks
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Re: I want an anal-only girl
Im also looking for a anal only girl, where are they?
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analrosette
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Re: I want an anal-only girl
I think the main thing is to find a girl who is sexually open-minded. This is probably easier than trying to find an anal only girl.
Me and my GF never discussed anal sex before we started havingit, but now we both hugely enjoy it. I love the way she gasps at the anticipation of me rimming her from behind and then gasps a litte louder and starts to moan when I let my tongue whirl all over her tight star.
I doubt if my GF would agree to go anal only if I brought it up. I think she might not understand and maybe become irritated. As it is now, where mostly 50/50 anal-vaginal though some periods we are predominantly anal. I don't need to go completely anal even if it is my preferred penetrative sex, but if she suggested it (which I don't think she will, I would most likely say yes).
Being in a predominantly anal relationship is fine by me.
So maybe try finding a girl who is willing to experiment sexually instead of finding that rare anal only girl straight away.
Me and my GF never discussed anal sex before we started havingit, but now we both hugely enjoy it. I love the way she gasps at the anticipation of me rimming her from behind and then gasps a litte louder and starts to moan when I let my tongue whirl all over her tight star.
I doubt if my GF would agree to go anal only if I brought it up. I think she might not understand and maybe become irritated. As it is now, where mostly 50/50 anal-vaginal though some periods we are predominantly anal. I don't need to go completely anal even if it is my preferred penetrative sex, but if she suggested it (which I don't think she will, I would most likely say yes).
Being in a predominantly anal relationship is fine by me.
So maybe try finding a girl who is willing to experiment sexually instead of finding that rare anal only girl straight away.
