clitoral denial as punishment

[AOmisogynyslut]

I'm 24F mostly anal only with my partner and Dom (26M). we aren't fully anal only yet because we find that banning vaginal sex is problematic for our sex life, logistically: anal sex takes longer, so we end up having less and less of everything.

however, this year in AO April we tried to stick to the ass, and managed to! I haven't had my pussy fucked for the entire month, and we've done anal a couple of times a week and oral (for him) at least every other day.

however, I've misbehaved. he told me he only wanted me to cum, or rub myself, if I had his cock in my ass, but I've masturbated a lot on my own because I was just mad horny . most of those were pure pussy, no anal stimulation. i know, embarrassing...

so in May I'm gonna have to face my punishment. he's decided I am to have no orgasms, unless they're anal, for the entire month. he's not going to let me rub at any time, not even with his cock in my ass. instead, he's going to cum everyday at least once, in my mouth or asshole, and he's going to force me to take it even when I don't want to (i love cnc so this actually sounds incredibly hot to me). he's taken away all of my sex toys except the butt plugs and i am only allowed to masturbate by stretching my asshole with those while I watch filthy anal porn. finally, he's thinking about using numbing cream on my clit for those times when he can't be around. that's what I'm most nervous about, so if anyone has any experience with it, please let me know!

i hope by the end of the month I'm the obedient, anal only fleshlight I was born to be

[Anal is Art]

Hi AOmisogynyslut!

I hope everything is going well for you guys for this amazing May challenge!

Despite I have no specific tips for you, I wanted to let you know that your challenge seems very hot to me. Considering your relationship and your kink for BDSM and anal, I think both of you will have a lot of fun.

I already did some weeks without touching myself except anally. I think you will be very horny all the time and that anal sex will become better. Do you prefer to get cum in your mouth / throat or in the ass?

Good luck for your challenge my friends

[AOmisogynyslut]

Hi AOmisogynyslut!

I hope everything is going well for you guys for this amazing May challenge!

Despite I have no specific tips for you, I wanted to let you know that your challenge seems very hot to me. Considering your relationship and your kink for BDSM and anal, I think both of you will have a lot of fun.

I already did some weeks without touching myself except anally. I think you will be very horny all the time and that anal sex will become better. Do you prefer to get cum in your mouth / throat or in the ass?

Good luck for your challenge my friends

thanks so much for the feedback!! it's great to find people that have experienced this sort of play 🥰

so far so good, except that I am mad horny... which is actually great! we've increased the amount of anal we do to almost every day, and only focus on oral when I'm too sore and I need a break. he's been taping my cunt every time he fucks me so I don't even consider touching myself, and we've used numbing cream on my clit a couple of times... usually when he knows he'll have to leave soon after the assfucking, so I'm not tempted to touch my pussy when I'm alone.

I'm not masturbating, for the most part. I can't bring myself to fuck my asshole even more whilst knowing I'm still not getting release, so I've only done 4 times these past 11 days. I find it's easier to keep horniness under control if I don't feed it haha

but it's not like I'm not getting fed! I've swallowed at least one load a day since we started this challenge, and I love it. I'm definitely a cum in mouth type of slut, although the pleasure he gets from breeding my ass in unmatched but he's really enjoying how my throat is always available to him, and he loves fucking it until I'm a stupid, drooling mess while he fingers my ass. that's one thing he does even when I'm sore, he always sticks a finger in my asshole when his cock is in my mouth. I feel so used and I couldn't love it more.

I'm definitely having a hard time with my own libido but I try to keep myself busy during the day and I'm always fully focused on him when he's around, so I'm doing good so far. if anything, I'm growing needier for his cock everyday. 10/10 so far

[Anal is Art]

Hello, Good to hear from you!

You seem to really enjoy this new challenge. How is it going as we are approaching to the end of this challenge? I hope for both of you that is is increasingly fun and exciting

For me, it has only been 10 days I did not cum but I already feel like I will explode. I think I am in the mood to stetch myself hard with my big plugs tonight. It makes me squirt so hard despite I am an man (I did not know it existed lol). On top of that, I am a big fan of anal gapes so this is really pure joy for me. I hope to experience pure anal orgasms one day...

By the way, do you know that some people manage to cum by getting their throat fucked? Just to let you know as you seem to like to get your throat used intensively
Did some cnc happened? I am very curious about it as I am not familiar with it. Do you have a safe word or even the safe word cannot stop cnc?
Also, at what age did you start to understand you were submissive ? When did you became a slut?

I hope my questions will not bother you. I am very curious about sex in general and I find this forum amazing to share our passions. Peace

[Hiraminaus]

Good on you, my wife really struggled at first with persistent denial.

I used a riding crop on her occasionally, a quick strike to the clit and she forgot about trying to touch herself or force my hand or tongue there for a while. Until she was properly conditioned, I would hold her hands behind her back while mounting her so she couldn't sneakily stimulate herself.

Your busyness is the energy that was drained from clitoral orgasms being redirected in a productive way, you'll probably find you become a lot more needy and affectionate with him, that was our experience.

Now I'll allow her a clitoral orgasm as a special treat, very rarely. It's much more fun to edge her constantly.

[AbbiTur05]

Hi ya. Wow I love your challenge. When my boyfriend and I decided on denying my vagina we decided on only allowing clitoral stimulation when my ass is getting fucked, I thought 'no problem'. The thing is I'm greedy so in order to get my clitoral fix I must have a cock (or 2) in my ass. This has led to more intense anal and clitoral orgasms and my boyfriend is only allowed to cum at the weekend which is a lot of fun also. During the week I bring him close to ejaculation then deny him a finish. He is invested in his sacrifice and it has led to some impressive loads on the weekend!!

[NoVagAnal]

@AOmisogynyslut not only is this a great challenge, but your reaction to it is perfect. For me, denial is all about keeping the other horny and desperate so that person is good for you. It's a really dominance thing. And in your case it has worked perfectly. What you need to understand, is that even though it's hard being line this all the time, this is how you belong. This is what you need. And you should look at this as something you have achieved, something that makes you better for him. So doing anything to ruin it would be bad. Hang on to it, and let it make you better for him.

Hope we get an update from you.

[FullAnalOnly]

Clit abandonment is a wonderful idea, though I find it better to view clit and pussy abandonment as a form of self-discipline rather than a punishment. If clit denial is a punishment then clitoral organs become a reward, which is a perversion of the goal of anal only. Not succumbing to the superficial pleasure of vaginal and clitoral orgasms is a big step on the path to anal orgasms. It also has massive benefits in terms of your libido as you have seen.

[ChrisW]

Talk of "punishment" smacks of abuse and coercive control, so I get bad feelings when I read stuff like this. Sex and intimacy should never be about punishment.

[Backdoorlover]

Yes @ChrisW I agree. Punishment implies there has been wrongdoing.

I never thought it would be possible, but having a woman in my life who is both happy to go anal only ánd meanwhile mostly isn’t focussed on her orgasm, changed my whole view on sex in general.

Like I always considered myself a 2-3 times a week guy. But appears that was because sex with previous women wasn’t as enjoyable as it could be because of their obsession for their own pleasure and orgasm. I held back my own pleasure and sexual joy because of it.

Now with my girlfriend we average 5-6 times a week and sometimes even daily. She makes me feel free to just use her ass to mouth or ass and mouth, just with my pleasure and orgasm as the main goal. Not once did she give me a bad feeling for not making her cum. When I feel she needs her orgasm, I will lovingly work for it. If she herself feels she needs her orgasm, she will rub her clit while I assfuck her, or grab a vibrator. Whatever is neccessary to help her achieve that sweet - body convulsing - orgasm I love to see.