Anal Anna AO Journey

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Anal Anna AO Journey

Post by AnalAnnaLisa » Thu May 25, 2017 1:06 pm

Hey folks! I'm starting this thread so you can follow me on my anal only journey. I'm currently at 1 month of AO with my boyfriend Randy.

For me anal is primal. It not about convenience. I like making my ass available. I like having a cock pumping in and out of my asshole while my man soothes me and encourages me to work through any discomfort and give into the intensity. Even though my clit still gets large and erect, the focus of my sex has switched to my ass. My anal orgasams are WAY beyond anything I experienced with my pussy. When I cum from anal alone, it's practically out of body.

As part of our D/s dynamic, my boyfriend Randy disciplines me with nude spankings. During my spankings, my pussy is still engaged somewhat. Either straddling the spanking horse, resting on his knee, or when he actually spanks my cunt with his hand or the riding crop.

However, since starting the AO lifestyle, my pussy spankings are no longer pleasurable. They are hard and by the end I am holding onto my knees and feeling a lot, but more than ready for my ass fucking lol.

So back to the AO journey... I'm having so much fun. I want to keep going and see where this rabbit hole goes. It feels so right. The concept of ignoring my puss and only experiencing penetration through my ass is very appealing to me. I've always preferred anal sex and I don't care what anyone thinks anymore! The more I neglect my pussy, the less I miss it.

I am very attracted to men and a highly sexed woman. I've always known I like being with two men and have had many enjoyable threesomes with two men that entailed penetrating my pussy/ass/mouth.

My Dom is considering sharing me with our friend/roommate and we are figuring out how to simultaneously stay true to our commitment to the anal only lifestyle. Everyone involved will need to commit to the idea of only using my asshole. I wonder if I will be tempted to feel the fullness of dp... we will navigate through it though!

But I'm getting ahead of myself. The plan right now is to:
1. keep up our month long progress towards AO.
2. have our roommate to join us if he's up for it.

To help transition from friends to lovers, my sub role will likely expand this week to me being constantly nude at home in front of the boys so that they both get used to seeing me in this state together. And I will get used to being exposed to both of them.

Hopefully this is a good start! We feel like we're flying blind here with both the anal only lifestyle and me training to be a shared anal only slut.

I'D LOVE ANY AND ALL ADVICE AND COMMENTS! I'm so glad I found this forum and likeminded ANAL ONLY kin!!!! I hope I'm not being too dirty or graphic... if so ,let me know. I just want to give everyone a flavour of what our dynamic is and that involves sharing the intimate details. If you want more info or have questions, just ask :). We are an open book!! Looking forward to getting to know everyone!
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Re: Anal Anna AO Journey

Post by Haunter » Thu May 25, 2017 5:12 pm

Don't be afraid of being explicit with your language! As long as one is polite (and you are) this is exactly the place where this kind of things are supposed to be said. Also thank you for sharing your experience to us.

You mentioned you had more than one threesome. May I ask (also here) each time how you brought up the issue with the third and how he did react, how did you three build an intimate and mutual connection?
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Post by AnalAnnaLisa » Thu May 25, 2017 8:18 pm

Hi Haunter!
I enjoy watching porn with my lovers and my desire for multiple men usually comes up while selecting clips together. From there we talk about doing it IRL and once they find out I've done it before, it's game on! There have been situations similar to this one with Bill where my mate or I have approached a friend that I'm attracted to. It was usually once or twice with each third man and then we part ways. Each man had his limits and would express what he was comfortable with - which was always the same: they only wanted to engage with me. Lol. But the sex was always intense. Less DP than typically seen in porn. But a lot of taking turns fucking me, oral, anal and vag. The boys connect because they are essentially ganging up on me. They're on the same team.

Now I'm in a live in D/s relationship and we are transitioning to anal only. At the same time we have invited our roommate/best friend to join us. I don't think this is going to be once or twice. You would think I'd be more concerned for my tush. But honestly, I am excited. I feel confident that my ass is going to adapt.

I've had enjoyable DPs in the past. But right now I am anal only and it is incredibly gratifying. I don't think my vagina is going to see penetration for a long time, hahaha
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Post by AnalAnnaLisa » Wed May 31, 2017 5:31 am

Update: This week has been interesting...
As it turns out, none of us required adjusting to the idea of a threeway. We were ready!

Bill watched me get a spanking this week. I liked having an audience! I thought it was strange that Randy didn't plug me first, but then halfway through he invited Bill to play with me and Bill rimmed me and inserted my plug. Then Randy continued the session while i sucked Bill's cock. By the end of the session, both men were naked and we were all ready to fuck.

Although it was incredible, it was different than I thought it would be. For starters, there was a lot of pussy play. I was surprised by how readily both of them were willing to lick or rub my pussy while the other one fucked my ass. Not a common practice in my previous three ways. We did doggy and me on my side. Lots of kissing one man or sucking his cock while the other fucked my ass. I came a couple times and they both finished in my mouth. Afterwards we smoked a joint, cuddled and chatted. It was a successful first fuck and we will be doing it again.

My issue is that since starting anal only, we were moving away from pussy play and I like that my cravings are coming more from my ass now. While its totally possible to limit pussy touching in a three-way, I think both men are used to focusing on pussy by default. Especially when it's right there, soaking wet, without a cock in it. Also, in my experience, MFM fucking is two horny AF men pawing me and arbitrarily sticking their cocks in my closest hole. Their brains aren't really working. As a sub, MFM was so easy before anal only. I just relaxed and let my lovers fuck me. I definitely wasn't as relaxed this time. I don't know, anal only MFM fucking is a lot harder than I thought it would be. :(

I'll talk to them about it. I just didn't want to kill the positive vibe during or right afterwards. Maybe I'll suggest they only touch my nipples... Any suggestions on this topic are appreciated.

Randy and I took the next night off because my ass was really sore after taking both of them. But we fucked yesterday even though I was still sore. I felt amazing during sex but now I'm even more sore! It hurts to sit, but I kind of like it... :roll: I guess anal only training agrees with me :)
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Post by AnalAnnaLisa » Wed May 31, 2017 12:47 pm

I forgot to add that Bill is getting an STI test so that he doesn't have to wear a condom next time for anal. Or rather condoms. Like five of them because of all the swapping. And I won't feel like I need to spit out his cum. And then both of them can cum in my ass one after another. Mmmmmm :D
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Post by rita_b » Wed May 31, 2017 7:16 pm

Hello AnalAnnaLisa,
Thanks for sharing your story. I really enjoyed reading your detailed posts about this sexual adventure outside of traditional couple arrangement. I'm excited for you and wish you well on your anal only journey with your boyfriend/boyfriends(?)

It's nice to see a fellow Canadian on here as well :)

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Post by AnalAnnaLisa » Sun Jul 16, 2017 1:01 pm

Just wanted to give a quick update on my AO progress. We're coming up on 3 months and it's been wonderful!

I've started to enjoy more nipple stimulation during sex, and having my breasts spanked. Randy still spanks my pussy, but that's just our thing :lol: .

We attempted double anal once at the end of a heavy session with Bill. I was able to take both of them a couple inches but it was painful. We'd have to stretch my ass with a big plug before it could take them all the way. I don't think we will pursue it because none of us want it bad enough.

However, we're really into ass to mouth now. We've never avoided it, but now we make a point of it and it's a huge turn-on, especially when Bill is with us which is probably once or twice a week. Whereas before there was some pussy licking, now it's just rimming, which I love. After a few minutes of it, his cock can slip right in.

The chemistry is great and the lovemaking is becoming more seamless as we get to know each other as AO lovers. The past few times we fucked, both with Bill and with just me and Randy, we barely talked and instead just transitioned positions based on body language and moaning. This the best sex I've ever had. Randy and I are very happy. Bill has started watching anal porn almost exclusively too. I think it's safe to say it's going well. :D
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Post by Haunter » Sun Jul 16, 2017 2:46 pm

Thanks for the updates AnalAnnaLisa! I'm very curious to read evolutions of this
chemical 3-sides relationship! :)
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Post by zarafan » Sun Jul 16, 2017 10:28 pm

AnalAnnaLisa wrote:Just wanted to give a quick update on my AO progress. We're coming up on 3 months and it's been wonderful!

I've started to enjoy more nipple stimulation during sex, and having my breasts spanked. Randy still spanks my pussy, but that's just our thing :lol: .

We attempted double anal once at the end of a heavy session with Bill. I was able to take both of them a couple inches but it was painful. We'd have to stretch my ass with a big plug before it could take them all the way. I don't think we will pursue it because none of us want it bad enough.

However, we're really into ass to mouth now. We've never avoided it, but now we make a point of it and it's a huge turn-on, especially when Bill is with us which is probably once or twice a week. Whereas before there was some pussy licking, now it's just rimming, which I love. After a few minutes of it, his cock can slip right in.

The chemistry is great and the lovemaking is becoming more seamless as we get to know each other as AO lovers. The past few times we fucked, both with Bill and with just me and Randy, we barely talked and instead just transitioned positions based on body language and moaning. This the best sex I've ever had. Randy and I are very happy. Bill has started watching anal porn almost exclusively too. I think it's safe to say it's going well. :D

Dear Anna,

Thank you for the update and all the posts in this thread!!!

Although I enjoy reading about the sexual aspects of this arrangement--quite a lot, in fact!!!--I'm also interested in the emotional and practical dynamics: for example, does Bill ever get to fuck you when Randy is not present? Does he get to make requests or demands, or does he only follow Randy's lead? To what extent is he an auxiliary in your relationship, and to what extent is he an equal partner? How does a third player in a ménage à trois avoid feeling like a third wheel?

Wishing you all every happiness and hoping for further updates,

zarafan

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Post by AnalAnnaLisa » Mon Jul 17, 2017 5:39 pm

Hey zarafan. Thanks for the + vibes :)

To answer your questions, Bill and I aren't sexual when we're alone. He's our temporary housemate and been friends with Randy for eons and friends with me since I started dating Randy. TBH, my feelings towards bill haven't changed much and to my knowledge neither have his. I love when he joins us but that's just play. Maybe because we were friends before.

When we have sex, I'd say he's an equal. But again it's a different situation than if he were some random guy. We already knew him and knew he respected me so we never discussed specifics other than that we were trying anal only. So he could make a "request", but unless it was insane he would prob just do it. It is nice having a third that we already trust. I guess it has increased our intimacy in the sense that I'd probably greet him with a tighter hug and having a deep convo would probably be easier.

This is not going to become a poly relationship though. We are only poly sexually with the other person present. We get off on it. Likewise, our D/s dynamic is only during sexual play. Otherwise we are committed to each other in a relatively vanilla way, insofar as anal only is vanilla, hahah. Anyway, I feel super lucky to have found someone this compatible with me.
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