Bill and I have become more intimate both in front of Randy and alone. Randy has encouraged it and requested that if Bill and I fuck when he's not home I remain nude until he comes home. Then he takes me aside and spanks me and asks how it was. I tell him everything . Then I parade my red ass around until we all fuck later. When I'm nude at home I feel open and free. It's hard to explain that it's not sexual per se, but I am sexually available and on display for my loves. The boys like it because I'm being open with both of them and that makes our dynamic that much hotter. I wish naturism was more prevalent in Canada!
I don't tell my girlfriends much about our situation, but I have shared that I stopped taking birth control pills and that Randy only fucks my ass now. They think its hot but questioned how effective it would be. I assured them it will be fine.
AnalAnnaLisa wrote:I don't tell my girlfriends much about our situation, but I have shared that I stopped taking birth control pills and that Randy only fucks my ass now. They think its hot but questioned how effective it would be. I assured them it will be fine.
Thanks for sharing your journey!
As an aside, the quoted section above is something I've thought about a lot. Doctors say anal sex isn't a fail-safe form of birth control (although what is fail-safe? not even condoms or the pill ... only oral sex or abstinence, I suppose). The idea of my partner getting pregnant as a result of anal sex is terrifying to me! "Look at our beautiful baby... She started in your butt hole. "
Maybe this is silly and dumb of me, but it's something I've thought about!
If we have sex before bed I will often fall asleep on my belly after they cum in my ass. It's partly because I'm exhausted and like to sleep on my stomach, but I also like the idea of absorbing the goodness from all that semen swimming around in my rectum. It's like taking a couple Vitamin Cum suppositories!
They want to start plugging me after they fuck me, while I'm gaping a bit to stretch my ass more so that we can attempt double anal. I'm still terrified of it and think it's a bit too extreme for real life. But a benefit of plugging will be sealing their cum in my ass for the night.
I actually think the DAP request is sweet because they want us to feel the closeness of DP - which we've never experienced together because Randy and I had gone AO when we started playing with Bill. Double anal is even more intimate since both cocks are in the same hole. I'm impressed that they're not being homophobic about it since part of what will provide them pleasure will be their cocks rubbing together in my ass. It shouldn't surprise me so much since part of why we get off sharing my body is that they get to watch each other fucking me, cum in my ass after each other, etc. Overall, given how physically intimate we are together already, it's not a huge step. Our sexual arrangement is inherently homoerotic and I'm proud of them for being ok with that. It also generally feels like they're embracing anal only more.
We're actually relatively inexperienced with butt plugs. We've always just enjoyed anal sex and have never "trained" my ass or pushed it to take more than a large cock. But I've gotten some stretching tips on PM and chat on so thanks for those! Let the plugging and stretching begin! I hope the training period is long.
I am sure that, when you will look behind, double anal would have been an obvious evolution of your games.
I guess it will take less time than you think. I had a girl with whom I did DAP with dildos and plugs. Her only training was to perform anal multiple times a day. Just a little butt plugging. It just took a couple of months and it was fine to enter her ass without removing her plug. With an additional month, we would have been able to perform TAP and fisting, since we were very close to doing it.
But every woman is different...
About your homoerotic point of view. This is surely how you feel it, but I guess the men would have a different view. DAP on a woman is always classified as hetero on porn websites, and is performed by hetero actors. When someone tells those actors it's kind of gay, they deny by saying they still fuck a girl.
It's sure they have to be not homophobic to perform DAP, but I really feel 100% hetero and I would still take almost any occasion to perform a DAP.
Don't you fantasy about a full love triangle between you three?
To clarify, I'm not taking a position that DAP is not hetero and I totally understand why porn would classify it as a hetero activity. I just mean that in real life, MMF sexual play is rare because - in my experience - heterosexual men are reluctant to get naked with another man. It takes them time to come around to the idea. I'm saying that regarding our play, DAP would be the most physical contact these two have had to date.
Perhaps it's because of how long they have been friends and that they've seen each other naked in other situations like after playing sports, but they are very comfortable being naked together. I also love being nude, especially in summer. I've been spending a lot of time nude at home lately given how sexually active we are. Often when we fuck before bed I come into our room and they are both already naked, just chilling watching tv or talking, waiting for me. It's become very normalized for us since Bill sleeps with us regularly now. We have a king bed so there's plenty of room.
Regarding stretching, I guess time will tell. Like your ex, I'm having anal sex numerous times a day, but I cant fit both of them in my ass yet.
I don't fantasize about a love triangle because we basically are in a full on three way love triangle. It's not as dramatic as it sounds though because we are such close friends. Which isn't to say that it's not emotional. Admittedly, we are much more emotionally intimate than I anticipated. I don't know how permanent it will be because in time I assume Bill will probably want his own girlfriend, but right now we're very happy together and enjoy sharing my body and experimenting sexually.
What I particularly like is the psychological dynamic of the bonds between you three.
Well, whatever DAP will be achieved, give us a picture!