Introducing anal only
Posted: Sun Apr 21, 2019 2:03 am
Here's the background. I have always enjoyed anal with my ex wife and with my current long-term wife. It was never a regular thing but more like the occasional special treat. My wife enjoyed anal orgasms.
Flashing forward to the present. My wife had an early and difficult menopause. After it was over she complained that vaginal sex was painful and wouldn't try anal. Then she lost interest altogether.
Much to my surprise she just announced that she would like to try to have sex again. Of could I am very excited at the prospect. But also fearful that she will complain of pain and shut down again
So my thought is to propose that we go anal only which for me would be heaven. I don't want her to give up too soon. So I thought it would be best to agree on a trial period. What do you all think about a month being appropriate? And what about number of times per week? Would it be best to have daily short sessions with lots of finger play and brief penetration or fewer longer sessions with the goal of orgasm? I think wearing a but plug for a period every day might be good to get her focused on her ass. Or should that be reserved for later?
I AM really appreciative of any advice you can give me. I particularly want to hear what women think. I worry if I blow this I am in for a sexless marriage
OMAN
Flashing forward to the present. My wife had an early and difficult menopause. After it was over she complained that vaginal sex was painful and wouldn't try anal. Then she lost interest altogether.
Much to my surprise she just announced that she would like to try to have sex again. Of could I am very excited at the prospect. But also fearful that she will complain of pain and shut down again
So my thought is to propose that we go anal only which for me would be heaven. I don't want her to give up too soon. So I thought it would be best to agree on a trial period. What do you all think about a month being appropriate? And what about number of times per week? Would it be best to have daily short sessions with lots of finger play and brief penetration or fewer longer sessions with the goal of orgasm? I think wearing a but plug for a period every day might be good to get her focused on her ass. Or should that be reserved for later?
I AM really appreciative of any advice you can give me. I particularly want to hear what women think. I worry if I blow this I am in for a sexless marriage
OMAN