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Thanks it IS a life changer. And intellectually, it's so satisfying.
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Re: no clit stimulation
It seems you are coming from a bit of a selfish place. Who really enjoys the pussy eating more? It feels like it's something you want. Try rim jobs as an alternative if you feel the need to pleasure her orally. I find it extremely distracting and frustrating when someone uses clitoral stimulation. You're holding her back from fully realizing the pleasure of anal by bringing focus back to the front. Allow yourself to really focus on going anal only for a week. You may want to stimulate her clitoris and chase whatever feelings come with getting your partner wet, but try to practice self control. Use that natural vaginal lubricant in other ways- if you feel your partner is soaked, run your fingers through it and have her lick them clean or simply use it to lube your dick.
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Re: no clit stimulation
No, that's ridiculous.
Some men might be into that, some might not be.
Similarly, some women might be into clit denial and some might not.
Just because one does it doesn't mean the other has to. Not everything has to be equal so long as everyone is happy and it's consensual.
The purpose of clit denial is amplification of pleasure and arousal through anal only stimulation, not denial of pleasure. Just of one type, to make other types more intense.
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I agree with analsexonly that it's ridiculous. Clit denial increases sexual stimulation for females in anal only sex.
There's a false equivalency between the clit and cock. It's not equal. His cock is fucking her ass so she doesn't need to get extra-anal stimulation. It takes away from the anal pleasure standpoint. Dilutes pleasure for women. His cock must be used in tandem with her asshole to provide pleasure to both parties. It builds a stronger AO foundation.
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Re: no clit stimulation
I couldn't agree more with the above. My wife and I seemed to just gravitate toward no vaginal penetration, but she still used clitoral stimulation. When I proposed we try anal only, without clit stimulation, she was skeptical. Within a couple of weeks, she was having the best orgasms of her life. Now, she agrees anal sex, without the distraction of vaginal penetration or clitoral stimulation makes anal sex so much more intense and results in better orgasms. With clitoral stimulation, she used to build up to orgasm quickly, then have her orgasm, and crash. Now, she has long, intense, orgasms. What's more, she doesn't have the crash afterward and remains more stimulated, resulting in her wanting sex more often.
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as said earlier... the clit/vagins and penis are not equal.
a penis is designed to receive pleasure and satisfaction.
a vagina is designed to receive sperm and produce a baby.
a penis pleasure and satisfaction is a requirement. a vagina is not required to be satisfied- this is why women are often unsatisfied after sex or masturbation. the organs just dont provide enough physical pleasure.
i would recommend shifting focus to only the ass, and ignoring the vagina and clit completely (unless you want to make a baby) pleasure from the anus will be there along with mental, emotional sensation. the pleasure will be much more chaotic the longer you keep doing it.
Don't focus on orgasms. Thats a mans game. Think of it more like rising or building pressuring and internalising.
a penis is designed to receive pleasure and satisfaction.
a vagina is designed to receive sperm and produce a baby.
a penis pleasure and satisfaction is a requirement. a vagina is not required to be satisfied- this is why women are often unsatisfied after sex or masturbation. the organs just dont provide enough physical pleasure.
i would recommend shifting focus to only the ass, and ignoring the vagina and clit completely (unless you want to make a baby) pleasure from the anus will be there along with mental, emotional sensation. the pleasure will be much more chaotic the longer you keep doing it.
Don't focus on orgasms. Thats a mans game. Think of it more like rising or building pressuring and internalising.
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That’’s mainly how my woman says she experiences it. She loves it when she edges forever and many times the urge to edge is more satisfying to her, then having an orgasm.
I needed to get used to that idea cause I got led to believe it’s my job to make the woman, I’m having sex with, cum.
I needed to get used to that idea cause I got led to believe it’s my job to make the woman, I’m having sex with, cum.
Backdoorlover’s quote:
“Ass to mouth is the only right way to have sex”
“Ass to mouth is the only right way to have sex”
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Re: no clit stimulation
LuvMyWifesAss wrote: ↑Tue Sep 08, 2020 9:32 pmI couldn't agree more with the above. My wife and I seemed to just gravitate toward no vaginal penetration, but she still used clitoral stimulation. When I proposed we try anal only, without clit stimulation, she was skeptical. Within a couple of weeks, she was having the best orgasms of her life. Now, she agrees anal sex, without the distraction of vaginal penetration or clitoral stimulation makes anal sex so much more intense and results in better orgasms. With clitoral stimulation, she used to build up to orgasm quickly, then have her orgasm, and crash. Now, she has long, intense, orgasms. What's more, she doesn't have the crash afterward and remains more stimulated, resulting in her wanting sex more often.
Exactly this! Since going pure anal only, with no clit or pussy stimulation my girlfriend has had whole body squirting orgasms that last much longer and are more intense than the superficial orgasms she got from the aforementioned body parts. It's also had a wonderful effect on her libido.
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No clit stim is a cool thing if it works.
We tried it for a long time. My girlfriend never orgasms without some sort of clit stimulation. So you can advice everyone to deny their pussy and clit, not everyone can orgasm without it. And why would I take away her orgasms just in the sake of not using her pleasure center ? For my girlfriend clit denial results in orgasm denial.
So please, whatever you think about this, don’t generalize it. It will not work for every woman.
We tried it for a long time. My girlfriend never orgasms without some sort of clit stimulation. So you can advice everyone to deny their pussy and clit, not everyone can orgasm without it. And why would I take away her orgasms just in the sake of not using her pleasure center ? For my girlfriend clit denial results in orgasm denial.
So please, whatever you think about this, don’t generalize it. It will not work for every woman.
Backdoorlover’s quote:
“Ass to mouth is the only right way to have sex”
“Ass to mouth is the only right way to have sex”