Anal Only Lifestyle Forum

I've decided to start a post here because I thought that maybe sharing my experience this way would encourage me to keep up with it.

Until recently, all I had ever tried anally was fingering myself for a bit while masturbating. Not a big deal, since 90% of my stimulation would come from my clit, so anal wasnt a main source of pleasure for me. With time I tried using small objects, but like with my fingers I never tried to make it the center of attention. I did enjoy it. But I think i was kind of self conscious about it, because of all the prejudices and such. I never actually felt bad about doing it, but deep down I was keeping myself from being interested in doing more.

Lately, though, I've been following more porn blogs dedicated to anal on tumblr, including this one about the anal only lifestile. I decided to try focusing on anal some more, to see if it felt as good as it looked. And while it wasn't mind blowing, it was good. Really good.

So much, in fact, that i had an idea. A few months ago I bought a jelly dildo with a suction cup. I had never had one, and I really wanted something i could ride comfortably. But I didn't like it that much, so I kind of forgot about it. I remembered, though, that the shape of it looked perfect for anal, and even though it was a bit thicker than the things I had tried until now, I thought, what the hell!

It turns out I could take it all without a problem (when my ass touched the tile I had it on it felt sooo good) It felt unlike anything I've felt before, and I fucked it for a long while until I finally gave in and had to touch my clit to come.

But I've been reading about the anal only lifestyle, and about lucky women who can come from anal alone. And I thought that would be incredibly hot, if I could do it. I'm not going to obsess over it, but why not try it, at least? I started a topic on the advice board, mostly to hear about the experiences and tips others may have. But in the mean time, I'm going to try one of the ways that was mentioned:


Starting this week, I'm going anal only! No touching my clit, or my pussy.


I know I may never be able to do it, but I'll try for a while. Whenever I'm horny, no matter how desperate, I'll do just anal this week. If I can handle the orgasm deprivation, I'll try the rest of the month.

If anyone is interested, I will try to update from time to time. I'm still eager for advice, and open to suggestions too. By the way, I meant to start this post yesterday on monday, which is when I officially started, but I didn't have time. Either way, from yesterday until next sunday, here I start!

I find it very interesting, and I look forward to read about your experience.
Now, I don't know if you are without male partner by choice, if you only like girls or if you are between partners, but I will tell you one thing my wife often says: Anal sex with a real penis is not the same as with a jelly toy. Even though it feels fantastic with a toy, the feeling with a real penis is much better. Even though she has orgasms every time we have anal sex, I'm not sure that she can come from anal with a toy. So if you come close to anal orgasm with a toy, I'm sure that anal sex with a man will send you directly to heaven in no time.
Therefor, keep it up - the practice will make you enjoy it even more, also if you don't want to do it with a male.

starglow wrote:If anyone is interested, I will try to update from time to time.

Best of luck to you in this endeavor and, yes, I am interested!

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starglow wrote: It turns out I could take it all without a problem (when my ass touched the tile I had it on it felt sooo good) It felt unlike anything I've felt before, and I fucked it for a long while until I finally gave in and had to touch my clit to come.

Length isnt usually the issue (well, it is, as explained elsewhere here, you hit the top of the rectum, otherwise you need to get a curved dildo (or cock and get it into the right spot to penetrate through the S curve above (ask TaylorK, he's apparently an expert navigator ). Thickness is usally the challenge, getting past the intense stretch when you feel your hole surrender and it slides in, its almost like a religious experience! You said this was larger than normal for you - how thick? Just curious what other women are working with for fun.

Well, this is turning out to be a lot more challenging than I expected. I've managed to sneak some alone time this week, but not getting an orgasm is... frustrating. I'm enjoying the anal a lot, it turns me on and the penetration itself is pleasurable, My pussy gets incredibly wet, which surprised me a lot at first But it's like my pussy and my clit ache while I'm fucking my ass. It takes a lot of willpower not to touch myself.

I hope I can make the rest of the week. I am really horny, and all I can do about it is fuck my ass some more

myttia wrote:

starglow wrote: It turns out I could take it all without a problem (when my ass touched the tile I had it on it felt sooo good) It felt unlike anything I've felt before, and I fucked it for a long while until I finally gave in and had to touch my clit to come.

Length isnt usually the issue (well, it is, as explained elsewhere here, you hit the top of the rectum, otherwise you need to get a curved dildo (or cock and get it into the right spot to penetrate through the S curve above (ask TaylorK, he's apparently an expert navigator ). Thickness is usally the challenge, getting past the intense stretch when you feel your hole surrender and it slides in, its almost like a religious experience! You said this was larger than normal for you - how thick? Just curious what other women are working with for fun.

I'd say about 3cm, maybe a bit more towards the base.

amorous945 wrote:

starglow wrote:If anyone is interested, I will try to update from time to time.

Best of luck to you in this endeavor and, yes, I am interested!

Thanks! I'll try to update whenever I can, then.

DanishCouple wrote:I find it very interesting, and I look forward to read about your experience.
Now, I don't know if you are without male partner by choice, if you only like girls or if you are between partners, but I will tell you one thing my wife often says: Anal sex with a real penis is not the same as with a jelly toy. Even though it feels fantastic with a toy, the feeling with a real penis is much better. Even though she has orgasms every time we have anal sex, I'm not sure that she can come from anal with a toy. So if you come close to anal orgasm with a toy, I'm sure that anal sex with a man will send you directly to heaven in no time.
Therefor, keep it up - the practice will make you enjoy it even more, also if you don't want to do it with a male.

Considering how pleasurable I've found the toy to be, this is certainly encouraging!

I've had a trainee who could not orgasm from anal only masturbation... except if we were doing a dirty phone call at the same time. Maybe you could find somebody to play with ?

I'll definitely be keeping a close eye on this topic!

Do you feel yourself getting to anything like an orgasm? Have you discovered what works best yet?

starglow wrote:Well, this is turning out to be a lot more challenging than I expected. I've managed to sneak some alone time this week, but not getting an orgasm is... frustrating. I'm enjoying the anal a lot, it turns me on and the penetration itself is pleasurable, My pussy gets incredibly wet, which surprised me a lot at first But it's like my pussy and my clit ache while I'm fucking my ass. It takes a lot of willpower not to touch myself.

I hope I can make the rest of the week. I am really horny, and all I can do about it is fuck my ass some more

I think this is a good state to be in to try and orgasm anally, as long as you don't give in. Something about being really horny and having a lot of pent up sexual energy seems to make it possible to get pushed over the edge with anal stimulation. Also try experimenting with different angles. Having it angled towards your front creates more pressure along the most sensitive areas and seems to be what's needed for some to orgasm. But a lot of it, especially at first, really seems to be a mental state thing—which being extremely turned on and horny help with.

It can be done starglow. I never believed in anal only orgasms but one day it happened suddenly for my gf. This is after we had been AO for a while but she had still been rubbing her clit on and off while we had sex. But this time was different as it happened all by itself and besides when we went AO it was the best moment ever.
After that we did less and less stimulation besides anal and now she can have an anal orgasm about 50% of the time. I think maybe don't try and think about it a let it happen but i can't say if it is something that will happen for every woman. Good luck.