disproportionate number of sadomasochists?
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disproportionate number of sadomasochists?
Has anyone else noticed that the women who say they enjoy anal (both on and off this site) have a disproportionately high frequency to also be sexual masochists?
The implication I'm getting is that they like anal for the *pain* rather than the pleasure, and i thus consider them to be only "second degree" analists, if you see what I mean.
			
									
									
						The implication I'm getting is that they like anal for the *pain* rather than the pleasure, and i thus consider them to be only "second degree" analists, if you see what I mean.
Re: disproportionate number of sadomasochists?
Hmmmm... I have not noticed that specifically, perhaps because of my own situation I interpret what u e read from that perspective- my wife describes herself as submissive, but I don’t think she is a masochist. She enjoys anal & doesn’t like it if it hurts, but her desire to be taken and have me make decisions for her is a strong motivation.
			
									
									
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Re: disproportionate number of sadomasochists?
I am a masochist, but I dont enjoy anal pain. I have too many pleasure receptors and have enjoyed anal for all of my sexual life. I have no desire to feel pain there.  That would mean something is terribly wrong, which could be seriously bad for my health.
			
									
									
						