mogashim wrote:
This is something I can understand. Not ever having had much interest or attraction to a woman's genitals, I do find the idea of anal (and AO in particular) enhances the appeal to me. I'm not into the "pussy denial" thing I've read here, but the sight of a (or my wifes) vagina empty while the anus is occupied is incredibly erotic.
I agree. I like the appearance of an empty vagina as much as any healthy straight man (regardless of the state of her ass), but the appearance of a filled vagina--as well as the idea of vagina penetration in general*-- hardly does anything for me.
It did when I was first entering puberty, but once I got into the idea of anal I found that concept much more appealing. As the sexual circuitry in my brain was still wiring itself, I guess it rerouted more and more neurons away from vaginal towards anal, until I was at the state I am now.
This is actually one of my biggest regrets in life (and at age 21 no less), and if I'd known what would happen I'd have forced a good amount of restraint on myself; luckily I'm a virgin, so I've been hoping that eventually getting to experience the real thing and what it has to offer the senses other than sight will fix that issue.
As for "pussy denial," I actually find that to be rather unsettling; and the occasional discussion of outright sealing the vagina is nearly mortifying (I mean how would you folks feel if you came across a "pegging only" forum where women would occasionally fantasize about sealing your dickhole shut?). What's worst of all is when they have pictures and videos; I can only wonder what would convince a person to disfigure themselves in such a way, and some of the methods used make the end result look like something out of silent hill (I see you've sewn your labia shut. Would you happen to be dating that guy who sewed his eyes and mouth shut?).
*Curiously, the idea of sticking my face in a vagina (so long as it's shaved) is just as appealing to me as anal, if not more so. And if my wife turns out to be a squirter... I may well wind up pinning her cervix to the wall with my tongue and sucking 90% of the moisture out of her body. before she takes her pants off.