We’ve been happily married for many years, and have enjoyed a robust and varied sex life for pretty much all of it. We consider ourselves blessed in this regard; over the years, we’ve learned to trust and communicate with each other some of our deepest fantasies, fears, insecurities, and desires. Our bedroom is a safe space and we feel like we’ve plumbed the depths (pun intended!) of our shared sexuality. There’s always more to explore, though!
Anal has been part of our repertoire from the beginning. But for most of our lives together, it was a spicy treat, not the main entrée. Pussy sex was our bread and butter, and anal was a fun occasional alternative – an indulgence, as it were. It’s been many years since we learned how to ‘do it right,’ without pain or mess or shame. I’d say we are equally big fans of butt sex. When one of us wants it, it’s rare that the other isn’t happy to oblige.
So, here’s the interesting thing: we have wanted it. More and more. Over roughly the past year, we’ve found ourselves asking each other to go anal in more and more of our sexual encounters. And I’m not taking about ‘a little in the butt, then business as usual, in the pussy.’ No. Increasingly, we’ve been wanting our romps to be anal only – with the usual oral warm-ups. The more we’ve shifted to a steady diet of anal, it seems, the hungrier for it we have gotten. And yes, I use the first-person-plural here because we’ve talked about it (oh, have we!) and it’s very mutual. And that is a mutual turn-on in itself!
We’ve wondered why this is (we’ve even considered that maybe being more house-bound due to covid has something to do with it!), but neither of us is quite sure. And neither of us is really all that concerned about why. It’s much more about when, and where… and how much!
We stumbled across anal only lifestyle quite by accident. We happened to be web surfing for good and hot anal porn (together) to see where that might lead us, what we might pick up by watching pros, and whether our own backdoor coupling would be further enhanced by viewing it together. (This has, hit-or-miss, been the case for the role of porn in our sex life prior to our… preoccupation… with anal.)
Anyway, I guess we were trying different search terms and somehow that lead us to this website! I’d like to be able to say we were searching for porn that was ‘anal only,’ but I actually don’t really recall. In any case, we were sorta dumbfounded to find this site, this community, this fount of solid info on anal and a legit, supportive, real-people community vibe. So, over the course of months, we’ve read through the Anal Sex Advice & Guide to the Anal Only Lifestyle. Wisely, we took it a little at a time – reading together, out loud: sort of a XXX bedtime story. It was a wonderful way to cap a late-night session of vigorous butt-fucking, on many an occasion. You can tell, I fondly reminisce – even though it hasn’t been long since we did this. We found it wonderful and informative and, well… it just keeps getting better with anal, between us. We are continuing to surf the blogs and share threads that we find hot or intriguing or interesting. We are grateful. And happy.
So… why join up now? Well, we are contemplating moving the needle further toward the ass-end of the spectrum, further from the front-end, so to speak. No, we’re not ready to take the ‘anal-only plunge’ <insert bad pun here>, and we may never be. Not having pussy sex as an option hasn’t seemed like, ummm… a compelling value proposition, you might say – at least to date. But we want me to be in her ass, more and more of the time that my cock rams home inside her body. It’s just…steamy, and dreamy, and lovely. Like I said, we do count our blessings.
Along with that trend, we’ve realized that there are certain anally-related sexual activities that we might be ready to explore, other than penis-in-rectum penetration. And seeking information about those activities is the specific thing that motivated me to sign up and sign in. (No, this is not scat-related!)
And here I (we) am (are). I look forward to engaging with the cool folks that seem to take this lifestyle and this forum truly to heart. I will post more about those specific activities soon. Meanwhile, this is getting way too long and so I’ll leave it at that, for now. Thanks for being here; my wife and I have already benefited a lot from this website’s existence. Now, on to the next level…!
-Claude
