Intimacy
Intimacy
We are enjoying our AO journey. Many of our anal sessions have involved frenetic, rampant sex with my gapes wider than the Grand Canyon. Last night we were both tired but my ass craved my boyfriend. He wanted to dine on my ass which I could not refuse. When he entered my ass it felt different. We both took our time and it felt amazing. It felt so loving and intimate for both of us. I got such a fuzzy feeling that I never got from vaginal sex. The close connection that I got from anal was beautiful. Don't get me wrong, I love when he gets stuck and is energetic, making us both sweat. After about 45 minutes I lay him down and gave him a long, slow blow job. He was trying to be abstinent from ejaculating but I couldn't resist it. We both fell asleep so satisfied and happy.
Does anyone else find anal more intimate?
Does anyone else find anal more intimate?
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I find anal very intimate also. The connection we feel is unique. My wife prefers anal either on her back or missionary. She says I just feel a bit deeper and we love to look into each other's eyes.
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@TelJ2003 my wife and I find the same kind of connection and intimacy with anal. There is a closeness you get with it that you can't really achieve through vaginal. Maybe it's because she is giving more of herself. It's hard to know exactly what it is but you can feel it.
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The first time I’ve encountered ass to mouth in porn, I was disguisted. I litterally thought “how can a woman do this ?”
But slowly the idea grew on me. I read stories about porn actresses prepairing before ass to mouth scene’s, using a douche and watching their diet.
So my view changed to “how loving would it be if a woman does all this prep to give her man ass to mouth sex”. I started to understand the trust involved, the intimacy of the act. The willingness to give it all, make him cum as good as possible. Using only the holes that are not evolutionairy meant for sex.
Entering a woman’s asshole can be terrible. I had a woman who said she wanted anal, and I believe she did. But it simply never worked. If I eventually got in, she pulled away if I wanted to fuck her asshole. In the rare occasion that I shot my load up her ass, she prompted me to pull out right away. So I stopped trying to have anal sex with her. Is just didn’t feel right.
My girlfriend now is 100% anal driven. The first time I shoved my cock up her ass, her reaction was more intense then when we did vaginal sex. She made clear she loved to be assfucked and in fact, we have been assfucking daily from that day on. I couldn’t believe that an asshole was even capable of taking cock every day. My girlfriend wants it. Even more times a day, her asshole is always ready for use.
The feeling of smoothness while assfucking her, is almost mesmerising. We connect on a higher level. I know for a fact she is the first woman who got me into fucking her every day. Before her and before anal only 2-3 times a week was all I could do. My cock kept limp for 2 days after a simple fuck. Not anymore. Now I get hard by kissing her. I show her my hardon and she can’t keep herself from sucking it. And it almost always ends up in her asshole.
Yes, anal sex is the most intimate form of sex I know.
But slowly the idea grew on me. I read stories about porn actresses prepairing before ass to mouth scene’s, using a douche and watching their diet.
So my view changed to “how loving would it be if a woman does all this prep to give her man ass to mouth sex”. I started to understand the trust involved, the intimacy of the act. The willingness to give it all, make him cum as good as possible. Using only the holes that are not evolutionairy meant for sex.
Entering a woman’s asshole can be terrible. I had a woman who said she wanted anal, and I believe she did. But it simply never worked. If I eventually got in, she pulled away if I wanted to fuck her asshole. In the rare occasion that I shot my load up her ass, she prompted me to pull out right away. So I stopped trying to have anal sex with her. Is just didn’t feel right.
My girlfriend now is 100% anal driven. The first time I shoved my cock up her ass, her reaction was more intense then when we did vaginal sex. She made clear she loved to be assfucked and in fact, we have been assfucking daily from that day on. I couldn’t believe that an asshole was even capable of taking cock every day. My girlfriend wants it. Even more times a day, her asshole is always ready for use.
The feeling of smoothness while assfucking her, is almost mesmerising. We connect on a higher level. I know for a fact she is the first woman who got me into fucking her every day. Before her and before anal only 2-3 times a week was all I could do. My cock kept limp for 2 days after a simple fuck. Not anymore. Now I get hard by kissing her. I show her my hardon and she can’t keep herself from sucking it. And it almost always ends up in her asshole.
Yes, anal sex is the most intimate form of sex I know.
Backdoorlover’s quote:
“Ass to mouth is the only right way to have sex”
“Ass to mouth is the only right way to have sex”
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@TelJ2003 without question, anal sex is the most intimate form of sex we have. Vaginal penetration with the intention of producing a child is also intimate, but for entirely different reasons.
As far as giving and getting pleasure, anal delivers in a way no other sex act can. In our case, the fact she has incredible anal orgasms is a big plus for both of us, and when I explode as deep in her ass as I can burrow, there’s no better feeling in the world. I’ve cum once outside of her ass in our nearly six years of anal only, but it was accidental. I pulled out to position her on her back for a deep pounding and ejaculated.
There’s also the trust required for anal sex. You have to know your partner and their ability to adapt. I think it’s one of the reasons why we now prefer to fuck with little to no lubricant. Her ass gets wet from plugs, oral, and anal play, so once I’ve slowly and fully penetrated her, we slowly work to deep strokes as I watch the pleasure on her face.
Yes, anal is the most intimate act one can experience.
As far as giving and getting pleasure, anal delivers in a way no other sex act can. In our case, the fact she has incredible anal orgasms is a big plus for both of us, and when I explode as deep in her ass as I can burrow, there’s no better feeling in the world. I’ve cum once outside of her ass in our nearly six years of anal only, but it was accidental. I pulled out to position her on her back for a deep pounding and ejaculated.
There’s also the trust required for anal sex. You have to know your partner and their ability to adapt. I think it’s one of the reasons why we now prefer to fuck with little to no lubricant. Her ass gets wet from plugs, oral, and anal play, so once I’ve slowly and fully penetrated her, we slowly work to deep strokes as I watch the pleasure on her face.
Yes, anal is the most intimate act one can experience.
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Anal is very intimate and has brought me and my girl closer than anything else.
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MrsCanassman and I are in agreement that anal sex is much more intimate. The trust it takes for a woman to fully relax and open to the experience makes it much easier.
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Agree with everyone else here about the intimacy. I know it sounds funny but when I'm inside her both my girlfriend and I have this sense that we were always meant to be joined this way. It is almost at times like a spiritual experience and I never felt as elated as after cumming in her ass. I wrote on another thread how my girlfriend has on a handful of occasions become emotional after with literal tears of happiness.
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ChrisW wrote: ↑Fri Feb 09, 2024 2:14 pmAgree with everyone else here about the intimacy. I know it sounds funny but when I'm inside her both my girlfriend and I have this sense that we were always meant to be joined this way. It is almost at times like a spiritual experience and I never felt as elated as after cumming in her ass. I wrote on another thread how my girlfriend has on a handful of occasions become emotional after with literal tears of happiness.
Good anal sex is definitely a spiritual experience. I cum so much harder than during vaginal or oral sex. Anal produces raw emotions. Last year she wanted to be pounded fast and hard. I delivered what she wanted and gave her ass a furious fucking. I think she was amazed at how fast and hard I was pounding her, and she started laughing. A few minutes later she had a powerful anal orgasm. It hasn’t happened again but it was an interesting and erotic experience.