How do I get my girlfriend more into assfucking?

[Livelysoul]

My gf and I have been together 2 years, and when we first met she couldn't use her pussy due to pain inside her vagina. I didn't tell her this, but I found that so hot we couldn't use her pussy.

Thanks to my eagerness in introducing her to anal, we've had successfull sex a couple of times, but it's too seldom.
We have too little sex! WAY too little!

She isn't interested enough, not horny enough, too stressed...

I've bought some sextoys I really wanted to use, but she isn't interested at all. She doesn't understand that a man has strong sexual desires. This is hard for me. I feel like I'm wasting my life on a project that won't satisfy.

[Backdoorlover]

I fear this will never change.

I have a friend who suffers from a condition that her hymen got repaired over and over again by her body, resulting in huge sexual discomfort, even pain.

She has never liked sex that much and meanwhile she reached the age of 53 and still doesn’t like sex that much. Like your girlfriend she doesn’t understand a man’s appeal to sex and even doesn’t care.

So I am convinced you will never get what you hunger for with your girlfriend.

[Colt1911]

@Livelysoul i don’t like to give up so I encourage you to try a bit harder. If you really like/love this woman, you need to talk with her about your sexual desires and needs.

I’d also encourage you to tease her hole by rimming her and light finger touches until she craves more.

Long story but the anal only relationship with my wife started more than 30 years later. One of the reasons is because I didn’t know how to make her want and crave it.

If she doesn’t respond after you talk with her and really try to pleasure her ass, it might be time to find someone who enjoys anal as much as you do.

[AbbiTur05]

For me its important that she is able to communicate what feels pleasurable and what hurts her a lot. Sometimes a little pain is a turn on as it indicates the fun is about to start. When I started anal I went on top so I could work out what I liked. Then I got anal on my back which I still love as we can see each other.

[Livelysoul]

@Backdoorlover
I don't think she experience discomfort unless something enters her pussy. She has sex drive, but not as I do. I think this is quite natural.
But I wish she was more lustful. She for example haven't masturbated or watched porn by herself in the past, which in mamy ways are probably good.

[Backdoorlover]

And I think you are holding on because you love her and hope she will change.

Is she on birth control pill ? It could explain the lack of libido.