Broke the news about going anal only
Re: Broke the news about going AO
I must have missed all this. Reading all the replies i think i understand what was said. All i can say is that going AO would never of happened without persuading my gf. It took time and i never would have gotten anywhere if i just told her it was what we were going to do. And i'm glad in the end she saw how it was better for us both.
Re: Broke the news about going AO
CumInAssOnly wrote: Going farther, I think the dominant/submissive dynamic is a lot of what makes anal sex appealing. 50 Shades of Grey was a huge bestseller among women. It's not just men who are attracted to the dominant/submissive dynamic.
You went too far and assumed too much. AO != BD or master/slave.
For me and taylork as well apparently, it's about a mutual agreement, not enforcement. It's what I want, there's no power imbalance dynamic that Im getting off on. That wouldnt need to be anal, could be anything.
Dont confuse AO lifestyle with anything else as it exists on its own.