I suppose I would say I'd been anally aware for a long time, but after being humiliated, when I asked if a boyfriend, at the time, would share the experience, that was put on hold, until I met my husband.
We haven't had vaginal sex in over 10 years, and I wouldn't say we have missed it at all. Naturally, I can only speak for myself, as a woman, but I prefer anal every time !
I am also bisexual, and have a girlfriend who is very anally inclined too, which is a win win situation for me and her.
Looking forward to reading more posts, and hopefully contributing to the lifestyle experience !
I didn't find the first time difficult, no pain, just pressure, the experience was completely overwhelming, emotionally and sexually.
I remember we started having a lot of anal sex, often up to 4 times a day, for weeks, so we just started talking about what we were doing, and where did we want this to go. The main feeling for both of us, was how did this happen and why, why was this so satisfying, what was wrong with regular sex ? What was wrong with us ?
We stopped for about a year, going back to regular sex, but it felt like something was missing, an intimacy, perhaps, its hard to ( pardon the pun ) analyse it.
So we talked about it - a lot, and both agreed that anal would be a 'treat' a reward, whatever you wish to call it, but the downside to rewards, you start to look forward to them more than the in between times !
Over time, we went with what felt right for us, AOL since then. The exact date was June 2007 and the reason I remember, it was a wonderful Caribbean holiday !
Thank you for the welcome, fellow UK'er !
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