My wife has recently got right into it much to my surprise, but i want to give her even greater pleasure if possible. I've managed to get my tongue in almost as far as i can with some clit stimulation but I'd just like to know what I can do to make it even better for her as its all new to us both - so to the experienced what can I do to improve my wifes pleasure as eventually its my dick I want her to also recieve pleasure from.
So luckylad I hope you get your cock in your wife's ass soon. Let us know how it went.
We tried a bit of anal play years ago when we was in our early 20s but being too young and too eager it didnt pan out brilliant and we quietly dropped it.
But now we're in our 30s and been together for 15yrs we are much more acute and patient to what we was back then. Plus there's that added keeping things exciting and as we get older our tastes change, she hated anybody touching her feet for instance but in the last 12 months she craves a foot rub daily so i think her acceptance to try new things which she actually ends up enjoy is a surprise to her.
When i was eating her ass it began with gental up down strokes while i rubbed her clit but then she started leaning back into my tongue to the point i kept asking if it was ok and she said yes so we carried on, and i got my tongue in as far in her ass as i could go but she was in control of how far i went in with it - i had to have been back there at least 45 mins!
She used to flinch everytime i ran my hand over her butthole but now it seems part of our foreplay, and in doggy position it seems the natural thing ive now started doing which she actually really likes although even at the time she couldnt understand why id find it enjoyable but she absolutely did not want me to stop at any stage!
Hoping this is a good indication or warm up to actual penetration, it seems shes open to it but above anything else i worship my wife and i want to please her back there as much as possible.
The butt just doesn't work like the vagina. I could orgasm if a breeze blows over my snatch just right. That will not happen with asshole no matter how hard the wind blows.
It's just a different sensation that leads to another. Sex is often a totality for women.
Well we took a significat step this morning, while i had her bent over i massaged her ass while i was getting her off with my fingers and teased her hole and to my surprise she did not flinch so I lubed up my thumb and pop in it went!
I just kept it there for a few minutes, i slowly took it out asked if she was ok relubed my thumb and slid it back in her ass while i played with her until orgasm and she demanded to be fucked. I kept it in there for an easy 15 mins and slowly and surely I moved around and very gently finger fucked her ass, it for me was an amazing thing to witness and do also!
I asked afterwards what she thought and she wasn't quite sure what she made of it, wasn't bad just a different experience she said but it did make her as horny as hell though we both agreed! Slow and steady progress but we're having fun, she definitely enjoys anal play and hopefully she will want to take my dick in her ass in the not too distant future.