Anal orgasms are more pleasurable, there is something, well, deeply satisfying in having ass stimulated, but does body really treat anal orgasms in the same way as genital ones? Isn't it that anal orgasms are, technically speaking, side effects of (very) high arousal and indirect stimulation of genital nerves, but despite feeling better they aren't full orgasms?
Being anal only seems (at least to me) like a continuous chastity with no way to reduce arousal and using some other part of the body to achieve huge sexual pleasure (including kinkiness of playing with ass and rectum), but never full release.
A question for folks who have been anal only for long: does it feel like chastity for you?
Our anal journey started about 15 years ago when she had her first anal orgasm from fingers alone.
I think the questions stands. It's often said that anal orgasms don't decrease arousal - how does it work for your partner? Did it feel for her at the beginning as if she was denied "real" orgasm?
Is my definition of anal-only different than other people here? I consider my wife and I to be anal-only...for about ten years or so. What anal-only means to me is that when we make love it will be anal sex. It is what we both want and it is better than before we were anal-only. Her sexual satisfaction is as important as mine, or more. Why would she let me in there if it wasn't good for her? I want to be let in there so I have to make sure she wants it while we're in the bedroom with each other, and all day by being a good man, husband, provider, etc.
Anyway, by anal-only, I mean when we have sex it is anal only. We always spend time together to get in the mood, talking about it, or watching some movies, etc. She always uses a vibrator for clitoral stimulation while I'm inside her. We both perform oral sex on each other during foreplay. The vibrator will give her orgasms but the vibrator while having anal sex will give more and better orgasms because it is sexy and exciting and loving. We don't bother with vaginal sex anymore because it seems vanilla. That's what I mean by anal-only for over ten years. We don't bother with vaginal intercourse (her choice) and I never want her to perform oral sex on me to completion because I'd rather do anal every time.
I feel like I won the lottery. We have a great, vibrant, and loving sexual relationship. She is excited about it and she stays in shape and looks great. It's exciting to have our sexy lifestyle secret that others don't likely have. None of my awesome, fully-satisfying sex life would be possible if I was a selfish lover or selfish person in general. She gives because I give and I give because she gives. It's a virtuous cycle of love.
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Some people choose to go a step further and exclude clitoral stimulation, either because they enjoy the arousal-enhancing effects of orgasm denial or because they can have anal only orgasms without any clitoral stimulation, and that is also anal only, but not a requirement to be anal only.
My wife on the other hand, cums easily and often. Like 40 or 50 times in the course of a normal session.
One of my favourite things to do is to get her going, and if the stars align just right, I can ram my cock into her ass to the hilt, and that alone will make her orgasm. So I stop right there and wait for her orgasm to subside, and do it again. One orgasm per thrust.
It's fun to keep that up for some time.
Your mileage may vary of course. Some people can't orgasm from anal at all, or from just anal, and they need other stimulation to actually get off.
But that hardly applies universally.