General discussion of the anal only lifestyle. If it doesn't fit elsewhere or isn't a personal comment or question, it probably goes here.
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I’m new here but not new to anal sex. I have an obsession with the female anatomy. But most of all women’s asses.
How can you be a boob guy when everything about a woman ass is so sexy. It smells good even when sweaty lol how can you go wrong.
Girls do you like everything about your ass? Because I do lol share your thoughts guys what made you decide anal is for me and how long did it take was it before your first anal orgasm or after?
Do you prefer making love anally or vaginally etc. Let me know guys and girls
Before u had sex for the first time I'd seen porn, as do most, but it did nothing for me, neither had the limited play I'd tried to have with myself. One day I saw a video of a man entering the girl from behind and she was clearly enjoying what he was doing more than any girl id seen in a video before, when the camera moved down her body and showed what was happening I was enraptured, I'd never even considered that before!
I tried playing that way with a hairbrush handle (classic first toy for most girls!) and where I'd hated the feeling of it just touching my vagina (which is why it didn't go further than that!) I very much liked the sensation using it "there" gave me.
Long story short, when I sought out my first sexual encounter, it was only ever going to be anal, and I've never looked back.
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This is incredibly similar to my own story. I’d certainly seen porn magazines as a kid. As an older adolescent my girlfriend and I were sexually active. She procured a porn on vhs. We watched it and part way through their was an anal scene... and I think some kind of switch went off in my head! I think it was the trigger I needed to open up an internal kink I was u aware I had till then. It was a couple years before we tried anal... and longer before we learned how to do it right. And I’m happy to say we e been together more than 30 years. We gradually moved to more and more anal, and this Jan 1st (2019) it will have been 4 years as AO - and we both agree our sex life is the best it’s ever been.
That's fantastic Canassman!
I've nothing to compare my enjoyment to, but I can't imagine anything being as intense, intimate or satisfying, congratulations on the (almost) 4years!
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- Joined: Fri Oct 11, 2013 1:25 pm
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Similar experience myself, I encountered the idea of anal before having sex and found it much more appealing than vaginal, but didn't get the chance to try it for a while. Vaginal wasn't that impressive upon trying it, but once I had a girlfriend who liked anal and let me try it, it was as good as expected (or better than!).
I didn't go anal only for quite some time after that, though, as even though I knew from experience some women enjoyed anal, I didn't consider the idea that they might prefer it too or want to make it exclusive. Once I knew better, though, I was done with vaginal.
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I convinced Carla to try anal, and within a few weeks we both decided that we preferred it. My first marriage was anal partly, but my ex came to resent it, for various reasons. Our divorce was so bitter that I was afraid of another compromise. Anal only has worked for me and Carla since no later than the summer of 1981.
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- Joined: Sat May 06, 2017 9:05 am
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I didn't really think about it much, honestly. Vaginal penetration did not turn me on much but anal drove me wild. So I kept having butt sex instead of vaginal.
Naturally, I had partners that wanted to use my vagina throughout my life. However, as I narrowed into more committed relationships my husband and wife just basically stopped using my vagina for the most part.
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- Joined: Tue Dec 04, 2018 3:54 pm
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Got my first taste of anal when I was 17. My first serious girlfriend would only do anal. She was super scared of getting pregnant. Short term girlfriends and one night stands kept me interested in anal. Got me thinking more & more about it. Now that virginal sex is uncomfortable for my wife, we have turned to anal and I love it. So does she now that she can orgasm from anal without any clitoral stimulation at all.