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Ryder
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New to Lifestyle

Post by Ryder » Sun Jan 13, 2019 10:47 am

I am new to the Anal way of life, but I enjoy it. My bf and I have been together for 2 years and stumbled upon the fact that it was something we both enjoy. Although we still enjoy vaginal use, it is only as foreplay like oral sex. My vagina has been relegated to foreplay only, mostly oral. I'm fortunate I get VERY wet so my bf will use my vagina for a couple strokes LITERALLY to get his dick wet and in my ass he goes, and we both are in heaven. I have even gotten to a place where I plug my vagina during sex like the average woman would her ass. My vagina is just not for sex anymore. For a quickie we use lube, because for us my ass is where we derive our pleasure and it works for us. He says he is not going back to vaginal only and I'm great with that. If we have not indulged in anal, for us we have not had sex that day. It was nice to find this forum to realize we are not unique in our preferences and that other couples have successfully enjoyed this way of life without problems or health issues.

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Canassman
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Re: New to Lifestyle

Post by Canassman » Sun Jan 13, 2019 3:26 pm

Welcome aboard. Great to hear you are so happy. How did you discover your love of anal? And how did you decide to adopt the lifestyle?

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Re: New to Lifestyle

Post by analsexonly » Sun Jan 13, 2019 4:28 pm

Welcome, @Ryder! It's good to have you here, and great to hear that you've discovered how much fun it can be to be anal only.

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Re: New to Lifestyle

Post by Ryder » Mon Jan 14, 2019 7:23 am

I have had anal occasionally in previous relationships and enjoyed it. But it would only happen for "special" occasions or every now and then. When I began this new relationship and we were discussing likes/dislikes when anal came up I responded with love it. My bf had tried it but had not really fully experienced it because of lact of unwilling partners. Ironically when we tried it he enjoyed it so much, to a point he asked if we could always have it and I was like sure. I was surprised and later he told me my ass was his pussy as far as he was concerned and my vagina was simply foreplay on the road to the prize. And here we are. Instead of a collection of dildos I have a collection of anal toys for every step of the process. The ones I use for prep/training, the ones I use for foreplay when we are performing oral on one another and ones we use after. I love to have a 1.75 or so plug (We call them finishers) with texture, inside after he cums. I'm one of those who wants him to cum inside my ass. That is my turn on. Or to have sex before we go out and have him plug me. It's our dirty little secret, knowing he just came in my ass and he's plugged it in before we go out to dinner with friends.

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Re: New to Lifestyle

Post by analsexonly » Tue Jan 15, 2019 10:22 am

It's not uncommon for people to quickly realize that anal is so much better and for it to become their favorite way to have sex almost immediately after having a good anal experience a time or two. It's almost stereotypical at this point, but it's true that men rarely want to go back to vaginal after experiencing good anal. The guys who don't see what the big deal is about anal after trying it usually didn't have a very good experience, or their partner wasn't able to take them well and the had to go slowly or struggle. Despite the idea of the advantage of anal being that it's tighter, an ass that's too tight ends up turning a lot of guys off because they can't really enjoy it. And as for women, good anal sex and anal orgasms are a great way to lose interest in ever having vaginal sex again!

Wearing his cum in your ass with a plug is not only a popular and sexy thing to do, it's also beneficial for women, as semen absorption through the rectum is really healthy and promotes mood and arousal enhancement. So keep that up!

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