General discussion of the anal only lifestyle. If it doesn't fit elsewhere or isn't a personal comment or question, it probably goes here.
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- Gender: Male
- Location: Netherlands
From the women I had anal sex with, only one would ever require lube. All the others just took me (and I literally mean that, I never made them) in the ass without lube. One even refused it when I offered it up! I do want to emphasize that we always had vaginal sex before anal, and often some ass licking had happened as well. Usually they had already orgasmed before initiating anal sex. I guess everything being super slippery and relaxed already helped with that.
Do you think anal only makes lube more important because there is no prior lubrication with other fluids going on, or are there actually women who take it anal only and somehow manage without lube?
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- Joined: Mon Nov 11, 2013 2:22 am
- Location: Canada
My wife and I almost never use lube - unless it’s a quickie with little warm up time. For the most part she gets naturally quite wet anyway... I leave a ton of pre cum... and we have been AO for so long that she easily accomodates my cock with just my pre cum, and then she gets soaking wet quickly as we fuck
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- Joined: Fri Mar 01, 2019 9:05 pm
- Gender: Male
Same here. We started with live but she prefers it without so we haven’t used it for years.
She’ll usually just get me wet while she blows me
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As I've said in another recent post, when I first began having anal sex, my partner and I would use baby oil as a (not particularly convenient or effective) lube. We soon stopped using it for the reasons indicated here: she didn't think she needed it, the smell is annoying over time, it's messy, etc. And this was in the era before the internet or the widespread availability of lubes that were designed for the purpose; in those days, the late 1980s, you still imbecilically had to ask for condoms behind the counter at most drug stores!! Fast forward a quarter-century, my most recent partner began to complain with increasing vehemence about the discomfort she experienced during anal sex. Now living in a more "enlightened" era, I was able to research the topic online and I ordered a couple of lubes to experiment. I tend to prefer the silicon-based lube over the water-based one, but in any event, the introduction of lube may have prolonged the life, or at least the sex life, or at least the anal sex life, of our relationship by about a year...?
I'm a true believer now: I wouldn't think of introducing anal sex, or even the topic of anal sex in conversations, with a partner without including lube. The more the better!
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- Joined: Tue Mar 05, 2019 4:17 am
my gf and I do not use lube
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- Joined: Tue Dec 06, 2016 3:20 pm
- Gender: Female
we don't use it often an if its first thing in morning I can be errm naturally sticky